2bad
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Post by 2bad on Mar 14, 2007 21:55:25 GMT -5
I would like some feed back.....I am in a situation where I think I have found my soul mate however we are both married with children with other people. We have known each other before all of this and have continued to be in contact with each other over the years. We have a chemistry between us that can not be explained . We have tried (22 years ) to let go of this but we can't seem to. And we are not having sex with each other. So what do you think I should do? 2bad
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Post by Blaque on Mar 15, 2007 6:24:31 GMT -5
I guess my question is how bad do you want to keep your family together?
In my mind, this is more about your family and less about your soul mate.
If you really want to stay married, I would suggest you and your soul mate severing all ties. Give each other a chance to focus on your families.
However, if you feel that your marriage is over, handle that first, and then see what happens with your soul mate.
I've never been married so am certainly no authority. However, I would imagine that there is a lot of stress involved with married life that doesn't exist in the relationship that you have with your soul mate.
In any event, I wish you much luck with this situation. But be very careful because what happens will effect many lives.
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sweetpie
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Post by sweetpie on Mar 15, 2007 21:15:48 GMT -5
For sure...
In my opinion if your family means anything at all to you don't do anything that will destroy it. You will regret it. I agree with Blaque, if your relationship is not what it should be and you have consistently tried, take care of the situation... deal with it first. Now with regards to soul mate the two of you have known each other for a pretty long time so I think you may be past the green grass thing but also you have never had a situation where you dealt with him on serious issues one on one. That could be one of the reasons why you look upon this relationship so favorably. That is the difference between having someone that you have a simpatico with and someone whom you have a life long interconnected relationship. That is the problem they cannot co-exist as much as you may want them to. Looks good in YOUR mind but no one else's, and once again no one would understand. As tempting as it most likely is to you , unless the both of you are free, I would not attempt to make the move any further than it is. Good luck sometimes the things that slip into your heart doesn't necessarily make it right... remember that.
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drok9
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Post by drok9 on Mar 16, 2007 17:31:19 GMT -5
I can't add anymore than what has already been said.
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