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Post by dolphinfan on May 27, 2006 8:28:12 GMT -5
I love and get along with BI women!!!and for some reason, they feel comfortable enought around me, to discuss it with me?? I have slept with two women, but not two who went off on each other!!! I've had this issue for a long,long time, it's not a problem, because like i said earlier, most women are useually honest , with me about ther likes and dislikes, when it comes to sex!!. I'm i just freaky, or just want more then i can chew!!! .......... on
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Post by Blaque on May 27, 2006 8:37:16 GMT -5
At least you can admit it. ;D
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Post by dolphinfan on May 27, 2006 10:02:12 GMT -5
At least you can admit it. ;D yes this is true!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Post by Be Prepared on May 27, 2006 11:31:07 GMT -5
Allaboutme2
Where are your children fitting into all of this? We don't always know that everything is going to be easier for everyone because of a divorce. There will be casualties, divorce doesn't necessarily make everyone happy. Yes, I understand that you can't please everyone. I am not trying to talk you out of it, I am just wanting you to make sure that this IS what is best for all because it isn't just you. It is unhealthy to stay in a relationship that makes you unhappy. But know that no matter what your husband is like your kids have a different view of him and they will love him anyway. Don't talk against him to them they will resent you for it. If he is a louse let THEM see that he is. It will show sooner or later. I have a feeling that new dude helped make your decision to divorce just remember he is not free and he may act it. Be sure and be prepared to face your choices. Good luck.
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cinnaroll32
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Post by cinnaroll32 on Jun 8, 2006 15:05:26 GMT -5
Be sure that whatever your decision is that it is made based on you and not the other.
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Post by pelicanguy on Jun 15, 2006 20:38:46 GMT -5
Allaboutme2,
If you really are ready to cut your husband loose, don't delay any further. It isn't fair to him to love and be there for someone who is basically putting on a front.
Do you want custody of the kids (if they aren't grown) or do you want him to have custody?
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Post by allaboutme2 on Jun 19, 2006 16:21:08 GMT -5
Thanks all for your replies...I would never talk abd about my spouse to our children. Anything that happens between us is always kept between us. My decision has nothing to do with anyone else but ME. It would be wrong for me to stay in this marriage if its just not working. I also would never base a decision like this on me beign with anyone else. I know my SO has someone else and I have always know this but we enjoy each others company and thats it. He's cool and all but I don't see a future for us. As far as custody of my kids I'm not concerned about that. The kids are going to stay with me know matter what. WE are both clear about that!
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Post by drok9 on Jul 2, 2006 17:39:59 GMT -5
I'm going to assume you know what you are doing to walk away from 16 years of memories, good or bad.
The "other" guy doesn't sound like all that much of a catch to me. I'm just being honest here. He has a girlfriend and he is messing around with a woman who is married and who also happens to be a mother. You're a mother, married and messing around with a guy who has a girlfriend and doesn't care that you're you go home to another man every night! It sounds like neither of you have respect for each other.
I'm not trying to come off mean or anything and I apologize if I do but seriously take a look at the whole picture.
Fine, if you want to divorce your husband but don't disrespect yourself or your vows until you are free. Don't show your children that its okay for mom to mess around with another man. Don't let them carry this onto their future relationships. Don't show this guy you have no respect for the vows you said to your husband five years ago? Don't show this guy that you are okay with this. Don't you deserve more? Wouldn't you want someone to say "hey, I like you and I want to get to know you better but we cannot do this because it's wrong. Or a guy who says, I'm involved with someone and I respect and love her too much to hurt them this way" Now thats an honest man! Isn't that a man you would love to "spend all day looking into his eyes"??
Besides, don't you need "time" to straighten things out with your kids after you "divorce"? Whatever you do, whatever actions you take, you should always put your children first because it will affect them the most.
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Post by dayjream on Aug 18, 2006 11:51:00 GMT -5
Peeks in the room. *Nervous* Here's my confession... I like role playing. Not just simple role playing tho. I like to be collared and cuffed. I like it so much, I bought a $264.00 choker collar with detachable chained cuffs. *Walks out in shame*
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Post by cinnaroll32 on Aug 18, 2006 11:55:04 GMT -5
Peeks in the room. *Nervous* Here's my confession... I like role playing. Not just simple role playing tho. I like to be collared and cuffed. I like it so much, I bought a $264.00 choker collar with detachable chained cuffs. *Walks out in shame* *Pats on the back* , there is nothing wrong with that.
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Post by Blaque on Aug 18, 2006 12:05:49 GMT -5
I like it so much, I bought a $264.00 choker collar with detachable chained cuffs. Kinky and well accessorize. I like it!!!
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Post by pelicanguy on Aug 18, 2006 18:54:47 GMT -5
I like to try some role-playing too....not using no dog collars and ish.....you know, pretend to be a character from a movie or TV show. Problem is....the women I have dated - including my girlfriend - isn't into that
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