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Post by pelicanguy on Jun 30, 2006 17:25:48 GMT -5
We already tell yall that yall are beautiful/sexy/gorgeous. I see that asking that question again and again a sign of insecurity. Ok, but if you are in a relationship with a woman who is insecure, wouldn't you want to help her get past it? Sure, I'd help...but I can go so far. Eventually, it's up to her to get past it/boost that self esteem. She has to want to feel good about herself.
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Post by pelicanguy on Jun 30, 2006 17:28:12 GMT -5
*smacks MsB on the hands for even typing such nonsense* Girl, when will u realize that it is OUR job to nurture and stroke the man's ego, but if we are lacking in self-esteem or need reassurance, we are weak? Get it straight! but then if we have "too much" assurance, we get labeled as "b's" or too strong, etc. or we dont need them. There's confidence....and then there's arrogance. Some women get the two mixed up. Go figure.
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Post by dolphinfan on Jun 30, 2006 18:23:18 GMT -5
Weight, why do women always ask men about there weight, and when they give a HONEST and FAIR answer. They get kick in the azz by the hate!! We get mad because, we knew not to bring it up!!!, but some how you always know how to pull this particular hate out. DAYUM. On the record, I love the thickness(healthy)!!! period When I am in a relationship I go out of my way to let a man know that I think he is the sexiest man alive (regardless of what the truth may be). So what is wrong with a woman who may be fighting a battle with body image wanting to know that her man finds her attractive? So men, if your woman is thick or if she is heavy, when she asks a question, and you know what she really wants is reassurance, why is that a problem? Just tell her she is beautiful and move on. (cracking fingers)(twitching neck), Ms Blaque!!, it's one thing to say your a beautiful person!!!!, I love you, I love the way you make me feel!!!. It's another thing to be two hundred pounds over, your high school weight(only a reference point), and then ask somebody who really doesn't care(YET!!!), when you know, you have OVER DID IT!!!. Now be sure this is not about HATE!! It's about the QUESTION itself. TWO:For you Lady's, who had fifteen kids, in two years, this is not about YOU either!!. No hate what so-ever, it's about the SET-UP!, THE TRICKERATION, that pisses men off!! . And to be truthful, we already KNOW, your too dayum big!!!. And looking at ourselves(men), some of us, may want to BORROW a BRA!!, (not me). Back to the Issue!!!!, I'm not a Liar or a Complete idiot either, I know when I'm being SET-UP, for an Argument. hers another one, is this too tight!!! MMMMMMMMM,(if i say no, she will look bad, and i will fell bad)( if i say Yes, i will be an azzhole for the next three days......until she needs money to buy shoes, for the outfit, she looks bad in ,to SPITE me)
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Post by dolphinfan on Jun 30, 2006 18:30:30 GMT -5
very, very good, BV in response to Dolphin, I myself dont ask my man if I look fat. I am fat! ;D I might ask if he likes the color I am wearing or something, but not "does this make me look fat?" DON'T EVER TRUST, A RAIDER FAN!!!! OHH MY TEAM SUCKS THIS YEAR, THEY HAVE A GREAT YEAR, YOU PUT THEM ON A FANTASY FOOTBALL ROSTER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! , THEY LET YOU DOWN DON'T EVER TAKE ADVISE, FROM A RAIDER FAN!!PERIOD, IT'S A SET-UP!! ?? JUST LIKE THAT RESPONSE!!!!!!!!
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Post by Blaque on Jun 30, 2006 18:42:46 GMT -5
Dolphinfan, I wish I were there right now I would give you a big hug! Those nawthan gals have messed you up, man.
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Post by dolphinfan on Jun 30, 2006 18:44:48 GMT -5
We already tell yall that yall are beautiful/sexy/gorgeous. I see that asking that question again and again a sign of insecurity. Ok, but if you are in a relationship with a woman who is insecure, wouldn't you want to help her get past it? YES ,RIGHT PAST MY DOOR STEPS!!!, BEEN THERE DONE THAT!! NEVER AGAIN, women seem to think, that if they have something PHYSICAL, ore POWERFUL, some-things , will work themselves out, NOT TRUE!!!!!, You must be proactive in your own life!!!!. I see women in the Church do it all the time!!. OOH i have jesus, so my bills will be paid by Tuesday, they are calling out his name,but looking at YOU!! it's one thing to be down on your luck, but if you haven't learn anything about your likes and dis-likes, say by 30, you can go live by your dam-YUM self!!!!!!!. Ain't nothing worst, then a person with low self esteem,(using age as example only) and they are 35, they are set in there ways!!! so change is HIGHLY unlikely. They do things to get back, but never tell you, what you did, until you kick them out, or you leave!!!. it's a revolving door, of asinine behavior, that only changes, when a person, gets tired of it.!!! Like a drug habit
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Post by dolphinfan on Jun 30, 2006 18:53:45 GMT -5
I know right? You would think they are being asked to rob a bank or something. If a man doesn't want to help HIS woman with her self-esteem issues, why is he with her? Couples are supposed to encourage each other and build each other up. What is so wrong about that? After you help her out and build up her so called low self esteem. ROBERTO, comes in a snatches you UP!!! , then the next time you two see each other, she usually can't speak!!, because you did such a great JOB, Building her up!!!!! she is SHAMED!!! and the BAD part is, ROBERTO, has no JOB!!! and one two many kids!!!!! and sleeps late!!! We gets no love, FELLAZ (my hand is in the air!!!! waving like I just don't careeeee) somebody give this brother some LOVE!!! (hand shake and slaps only).
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Post by dolphinfan on Jun 30, 2006 18:55:34 GMT -5
Dolphinfan, I wish I were there right now I would give you a big hug! Those nawthan gals have messed you up, man. Dam right , and I'm mad as hel >:(l, so bring some of that southern love, I ve missed so much!!! ;D
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Post by Blaque on Jun 30, 2006 19:46:57 GMT -5
Dolphinfan, I wish I were there right now I would give you a big hug! Those nawthan gals have messed you up, man. Dam right , and I'm mad as hel >:(l, so bring some of that southern love, I ve missed so much!!! ;D
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Post by dolphinfan on Jul 1, 2006 14:41:06 GMT -5
;D MMMMM SUTHERN WOMAN!!!! yummy , AND NO BEEF/PORK BY PRODUCTS MMMMMMMM ;D , BEEN A LONG TIME SINCE I HAD A VEGETARIAN!!
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Post by lusciouslois on Jul 5, 2006 8:01:08 GMT -5
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Post by Blaque on Jul 5, 2006 8:16:51 GMT -5
What's your problem? The man has good taste, what's wrong with that?
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Post by lusciouslois on Jul 5, 2006 9:15:58 GMT -5
What's your problem? The man has good taste, what's wrong with that? Lord, let me correct that before I get accused of "hating." (not by you, MsB) he does have good taste..just a little too much for this time of morning
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Post by dolphinfan on Jul 5, 2006 18:19:05 GMT -5
What's your problem? The man has good taste, what's wrong with that? SHE'S JUST MAD, DON'T PAY HER ANY ATTENTION
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Post by lusciouslois on Jul 6, 2006 8:49:26 GMT -5
What's your problem? The man has good taste, what's wrong with that? SHE'S JUST MAD, DON'T PAY HER ANY ATTENTION
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