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Ladies
Nov 3, 2006 9:51:31 GMT -5
Post by lusciouslois on Nov 3, 2006 9:51:31 GMT -5
Okay, BrotherB...the point is not in trying to make a man into a slave or servant, although SOME men do act like that around women (another post for another time) do YOU not like when your woman cooks for you or maybe cleans or helps you clean your place? alright, say you would rather do those things yourself. No biggie BUT what is wrong in doing something nice for her like washing her car or helping her lift something heavy or doing it yourself for her? No one said you HAD to wash the car every day or cut the grass every week or change the oil for her every week.
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Ladies
Nov 3, 2006 15:37:12 GMT -5
Post by pelicanguy on Nov 3, 2006 15:37:12 GMT -5
Helping her with something heavy is a given. Mowing the lawn is a given. Building or fixing something for her is a given, if we can do it. Changing her oil in the car is a given, unless she's single and prefers to waste $20 bucks taking it to some joint. That is what us men do....even like to do, in some cases...if the women in our lives (family, friends, mates) are good people.
Personally, I don't see what's wrong with you washing and cleaning your own car from time to time. You drive it, and throw stuff in it.
Geesh, yall are really reading into this way too hard. I never said yall are supposed to do everything.
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Ladies
Nov 3, 2006 16:20:21 GMT -5
Post by lusciouslois on Nov 3, 2006 16:20:21 GMT -5
If the women you are talking about are good people....well duh...you gonna do it for someone you dont like? anyway, I asked you to clarify cause it did sound like we single women weren't deserving of a man's help every now and then or we were trying to make y'all slaves. (another post for another time) but SOME men do all of that because they are trying to BUY love or attention.
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Ladies
Nov 3, 2006 18:06:47 GMT -5
Post by pelicanguy on Nov 3, 2006 18:06:47 GMT -5
I never said that.
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