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Post by Blaque on Mar 8, 2007 9:24:00 GMT -5
Should men have control over the abortion process?
If it's their child should they have say so about whether or not the woman should have abortions?
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toy
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Post by toy on Mar 8, 2007 11:17:57 GMT -5
NO WAY MEAN SHOULD NOT!
There not the ones bring life into the world
BTW I dont believe in abortion....not at all
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Post by Blaque on Mar 8, 2007 12:12:03 GMT -5
I don't believe in it either. I would NEVER have one.
I think the responsible thing to do is consider the man's feelings but ultimately, it must be the woman's choice.
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Post by dolphinfan on Mar 8, 2007 17:06:47 GMT -5
It's a women right. As part of the freedoms of choice to have and should always be private and PROTECTED. Can a man sue?, probably, for pain and suffering. If it get that far in court. I don't believe in abortions, for the sake!!! of an abortion. I believe what ever ails a woman to do this, to herself, must be a great burden, to end a life. And should be her right and her right only. I hear people say, what about adoptions, I say, they haven't paid attention, to the news. And what it takes to even get one!!. Let alone, the type of baby, they really want. So I say no!!!
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sweetpie
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Post by sweetpie on Mar 11, 2007 19:20:38 GMT -5
No way...
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Post by darock on Mar 12, 2007 14:47:24 GMT -5
No ONE person should have 100% control over the living or dying of a child that it took TWO people to make!
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Post by sweetpie on Mar 12, 2007 18:26:40 GMT -5
DaRock but it is what has been happening all along. She makes the decision unless it is a situation that has her under duress.
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Post by darock on Mar 12, 2007 23:26:23 GMT -5
I know, and if a woman kills her child, apart from health reasons or rape, it is just selfish.
An abortion is the closest thing a woman can do to getting unfucked...just sad.
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Post by Blaque on Mar 13, 2007 8:53:14 GMT -5
It is sad. Unborn babies have absolutely NO RIGHTS. A woman shot herself in the stomach last year because she didn't want to be pregnant anymore and she got off. No jail time! It's crazy.
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Post by pelicanguy on Mar 13, 2007 11:57:19 GMT -5
DaRock does bring up a good point. If people don't want babies, they should use protection. That's why you have a lot of abortions in the first place; people don't think.
With that said...if the woman doesn't want the baby, give the baby to the father if he wants to take care of it or give it up for adoption instead of aborting it. It is selfish.
I only support abortion if the woman was raped, a victim of incest or if her life was in danger.
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drok9
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Post by drok9 on Mar 14, 2007 18:32:56 GMT -5
I'm not a supporter of abortion but I certainly believe it takes TWO to make the baby so why not allow the man the right/chance to support his blood.
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Post by blackviking on Mar 21, 2007 7:59:13 GMT -5
Absolutely not...
No one person should have control over another person's body. This is the the crux of the issue for me when it comes to abortion. We have a word in our language for a person who does not have legal control over their own body.
That word is slave.
I will not make a slave out of a perfectly viable woman in order to protect the potential viability of an organism that currently cannot even breath on its own. Even more... it needs the 110% support of that same viable woman if its potential is going to be realized at all. But in turn destroyed an immeasurable amount of her viability by taking away her God given right to control her own body.
The decision to have or not to have an abortion must be one of the most difficult decisions any woman would have to make. I thank God that I am a man so I will never have to make such a decision. If and when I have children it will be through grace... not force. The grace of God... and the grace of the woman who was willing to bear and birth that child. I would not enslave that woman in order to ensure that it happened. If God had intended for me to have that much control over the situation... I'm certain that God would've insisted that I invest in the process in a way that was on par with the woman's investment. As it is... I invest a few ounces of ejaculate (of which I have an infinite supply) , while she invests and egg (which has a very finite supply) and 9 months of pregnancy and several hours of labor... to start. It seems pretty clear to me who has the greater investment in this process, and therefore makes perfect sense to me who is (and should be) in control of the situation.
It would be arrogant and futile for me to try and take that from her.
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Post by jazzlover on Mar 22, 2007 16:57:58 GMT -5
A Man SHOULD have a right to raise the baby, if mom doesn't want him and daad does YES a man should have that right!
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