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Post by Blaque on Mar 8, 2007 9:38:11 GMT -5
I know we've talked about this before, but for shits and giggles, I'll ask this question again:
Would you enter into a relationship with someone who was celibate and planned on waiting until marriage before he/she had sex?
Why or why not?
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Post by pelicanguy on Mar 8, 2007 15:06:12 GMT -5
If I was really into her and things were progressing well toward that point, I could. There are other ways we could have fun.
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Post by dolphinfan on Mar 8, 2007 17:08:45 GMT -5
No!, I like sex, and have no religious issues to make me want to stop, other then health (hers or mine). I have met women, who have told me they were celibate, and I was gonna ask them out. But thought twice about it. I respect people views, as well as mine, and try to stay within them. But when it comes to dating, I draw the line at sex-less (if i know before hand). I have waited, but i have also gotten some from somebody else . I believe, that like minded people, should, be together. Now if i know this person, and we were intimate, and decided to get married!!! and there wasn't a extended period to wait, i would be down. but it can't be from a religious stand point, because we already broke those rules.
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sudan
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Post by sudan on Mar 8, 2007 20:34:25 GMT -5
I like, no LOVE sex, too....but I am Celibate. See...I am REEEEAAAALLLL GReedy when it comes to sex and lovemaking and it hurts sooooo much when I can't have it anymore like if I break up with a Man. It's probably like Being "addicted"!! So I decided almost eight years ago to become celibate....cause I am sooooo greedy. I don't want to go through another withdrawal!! When 'de Men stop coming and going...Then and ONLY Then will I give up "The BOOTEY"
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Post by Blaque on Mar 9, 2007 11:19:24 GMT -5
I would wait if that's what a man wanted to do. I personally believe that when people take physical intimacy out of the equation and concentrate more on knowing each other in the deepest ways possible it makes for a stronger relationship.
Like Sudan mentioned, men come and go. Sleeping with them don't keep them around nor keep them faithful. Often times, physical intimacy (especially when it's GOOD) clouds your judgment.
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Post by darock on Mar 10, 2007 0:04:06 GMT -5
Yes, I would. Having a deep emotional connection is very, very important.
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jazzlover
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Post by jazzlover on Mar 15, 2007 6:46:05 GMT -5
I waited when I met my wife because we BOTH were in agreement, I only regret no discussing sexuality more though, sexual compatability is important, when you wait you still need to know what each other likes and dislikes, If you are a man that likes spontaneous sex, oral sex, and role play and she think thats crazy of nasty....guess what all the praying and speaking in tongues in the world won't save that marriage!
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Post by Blaque on Mar 15, 2007 12:48:15 GMT -5
If I meet a man and we decide to enter into a relationship that’s non-sexual, believe you me, we will be doing A LOT of talking about that topic. It is very important for two people to be on the same page in when it comes to sex. I know it’s not the most important thing in a relationship, but couples that are unevenly matched leave the door wide open to adultery.
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drok9
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Post by drok9 on Mar 15, 2007 20:40:15 GMT -5
Communication is just AS important as sex. I think we get mislead by the sex hype and when thats over we realize there really was no connection. Therefore, if you wait and you find out there is no connection, you would have lost nothing!
Oh boy, but if there IS a connection and you can communicate well with each other .... it makes the wait for sex so much more better and you've only gained.
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sweetpie
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Post by sweetpie on Mar 16, 2007 17:46:04 GMT -5
So true... communication is VERY key.
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Post by dolphinfan on Mar 16, 2007 18:32:26 GMT -5
Communication is just AS important as sex. I think we get mislead by the sex hype and when thats over we realize there really was no connection. Therefore, if you wait and you find out there is no connection, you would have lost nothing! Oh boy, but if there IS a connection and you can communicate well with each other .... it makes the wait for sex so much more better and you've only gained. B I N G O !!!
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