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Post by Blaque on Mar 23, 2007 8:25:01 GMT -5
for a woman's phone number and then NOT call? Seriously, for what possible reason would a guy do this?
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jazzlover
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Post by jazzlover on Mar 23, 2007 8:38:23 GMT -5
It's is like catching a fish and throwing it back, it sometimes is the thrill of the chase . After catching the fish the fisherman realizes he has the clean and cook the fish, too much work, it is easier to go to Long John Silver and buy a fish platter. (smile)
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Post by Blaque on Mar 23, 2007 9:09:03 GMT -5
Catching a fish, huh? Well, eventually someone will realize that he could have been dining on fine caviar but it will be too late.
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Post by dolphinfan on Mar 23, 2007 9:19:19 GMT -5
It's is like catching a fish and throwing it back, it sometimes is the thrill of the chase . After catching the fish the fisherman realizes he has the clean and cook the fish, too much work, it is easier to go to Long John Silver and buy a fish platter. (smile) Thats a pretty good anology! Panther!!. I will call, but if I call and all we do, is say nothing, I'm not calling back. If I get possitive feed back each time we talk, you will get a call back. Now like Panther, if it takes me days, weeks, months, to get your number, and I go home and think about what it took to get this number, I feel I have the right to reconsider. Now that may not be classy, but it's effective.(Because during the chase, there might have been things I missed, and or went unsaid,because I wanted to get next to you, more then, getting to know you!!!.) For instance, maybe you are too demanding, something , I normanly don't go for, BUT, you looked so dam Yum good. I lost my mind. and the day of the call, I had a change of heart. Maybe you came off Very(too smart, boring) intelligently, and I felt I needed more time, to think of things to say, and during my process, I said to hell with it Too. It happens. Men don't call back, because, either they figured, it wasn't worth it. or it was just too dayum hard, and will only get harder, or worst, COST MO MONEY!!!. Men need possitive reinforcement, when things first start out. The littlist thing that could go wrong, can, and will end the hunt!!! for some men.
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Post by Blaque on Mar 23, 2007 9:55:49 GMT -5
Thanks for breaking it down for me Dolphinfan. In other words, SOME men are indecisive and don't know what they want. That's what I got out of what you said.
And if that's the case, someone like that wouldn't last 5 minutes with a woman such as myself. Indecisiveness and a wishy-washy personality don't exactly turn me on.
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Post by pelicanguy on Mar 23, 2007 10:06:50 GMT -5
Dolphin pretty much summed things up.
I also like to add that some guys just want to have the number just to take up space in his black book...and to brag to his buddies.
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Post by Blaque on Mar 23, 2007 10:09:50 GMT -5
I also like to add that some guys just want to have the number just to take up space in his black book...and to brag to his buddies. Translation: Men like to play games.
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Post by dolphinfan on Mar 23, 2007 10:18:10 GMT -5
Thanks for breaking it down for me Dolphinfan. In other words, SOME men are indecisive and don't know what they want. That's what I got out of what you said. And if that's the case, someone like that wouldn't last 5 minutes with a woman such as myself. Indecisiveness and a wishy-washy personality don't exactly turn me on. I agree, but during the initial meeting, alot of false, IMPRESSIONS, can and do happen. I do agree, why ask, if you ain't gonna call. To that I say, some men, find out after the fact, they ain't the one.
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Post by Blaque on Mar 23, 2007 10:21:59 GMT -5
I understand what you're saying.
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Post by thicknbassy on Mar 23, 2007 11:45:06 GMT -5
I've never done that, so I can't understand it myself. I've decided that I'm definately gonna call you before I ask for your number.
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Post by Blaque on Mar 23, 2007 12:00:44 GMT -5
I've never done that, so I can't understand it myself. I've decided that I'm definately gonna call you before I ask for your number. You're gonna call BEFORE you ask for the number? You're good.
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Post by thicknbassy on Mar 23, 2007 12:14:24 GMT -5
I've never done that, so I can't understand it myself. I've decided that I'm definately gonna call you before I ask for your number. You're gonna call BEFORE you ask for the number? You're good. You miss a shoe sale or somethin?' Okay let me elaborate....before I ask you for your phone number, I've carefully assessed the situation (translation: I've checked you out real good, and I'm really feelin' you) BEFORE I ASK YOU FOR YOUR PHONE NUMBER. My mind ain't gon' change between hollerin' and dialin'....
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Post by Blaque on Mar 23, 2007 12:18:45 GMT -5
OHHHH, I see what you're saying. ;D
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Post by thicknbassy on Mar 23, 2007 12:24:18 GMT -5
I HATE lies and games, and I DESPISE deception. I'm a pretty straightforward kindabrotha. If you are that way wit me, we're Kool N The Gang...
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Post by darock on Mar 23, 2007 12:48:26 GMT -5
for a woman's phone number and then NOT call? Seriously, for what possible reason would a guy do this? Okay, so who pissed you off last week by getting your number and not calling? ;D And lemme throw it back atcha...HOW COME yall will give a brotha your number, then NOT answer calls??
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