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Post by sunflower on Jan 28, 2007 1:23:49 GMT -5
He's getting on my nerves..........bad. He's clearly having an issue with me going home (San Francisco) to see about my aunt. He wants me to take the kids and I can't (I won't). Where are you staying?, who's there?, etc.
He runs and sees about his family anytime the mood hits, but it's an issur when I need to deal with mine or anything in generaL. Insecure sh*t. Grilling me about everything but lying and not including me in things I should know about.
He is grinding my last nerve down to a twig anf he's going to really make me say something nasty in a minute.
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Post by Blaque on Jan 28, 2007 12:25:23 GMT -5
Pray for a change and believe that it's going to come.
Life is to precious to spend it unhappily or to spend it with someone who makes you unhappy.
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Post by sunflower on Jan 28, 2007 12:43:19 GMT -5
That is true. To some degree, I see that he's been trying but there is too much damage - then there are other things that tend to pop up. For the most part, I am not unhappy just in this area - I got a new job/environment that I like, my kids for the most part are doing ok, my oldest son passed his exit exams for H.S.
It's just him grinding my nerves and trying to push my buttons. I know that all relationships have ups & downs, but just the damage that I see in mine.
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Post by sweetpie on Jan 28, 2007 17:02:03 GMT -5
Hang in there...
It seems like he wants you to take the kids to free himself up while you are gone his behavior really sounds suspect. He is their parent too and he should keep them. Don't let him make you feel bad about it. As a husband he needs to help you during times of need.
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Post by sunflower on Jan 28, 2007 17:46:25 GMT -5
Hang in there... It seems like he wants you to take the kids to free himself up while you are gone his behavior really sounds suspect. He is their parent too and he should keep them. Don't let him make you feel bad about it. As a husband he needs to help you during times of need. He does seem suspect. He kept messing with me about who was staying at my moms house and some other stuff until I blew my gasket. I asked him why was it that when I needed to deal with my thing, I had to listen to all this BS? Of course he then was "I'am not doing that - you don't have to take the kids" and "why are you getting upset?". I told him I knew that they weren't going and that I was going to see about my aunt....conversation over. I'll make sure they have money and food here just in case he acts stupid, but at home they will stay.
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Post by Blaque on Jan 28, 2007 17:59:30 GMT -5
I'm so sorry that you have to deal with that given the much bigger issue with your aunt.
Like Sweetpie said, hang in there.
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Post by dolphinfan on Feb 3, 2007 12:13:14 GMT -5
He's getting on my nerves..........bad. He's clearly having an issue with me going home (San Francisco) to see about my aunt. He wants me to take the kids and I can't (I won't). Where are you staying?, who's there?, etc. He runs and sees about his family anytime the mood hits, but it's an issur when I need to deal with mine or anything in generaL. Insecure sh*t. Grilling me about everything but lying and not including me in things I should know about. He is grinding my last nerve down to a twig anf he's going to really make me say something nasty in a minute. Family is so important, if you love your aunt, and you feel you neeed to be ther, be there. Leave the kids with him, or somebody you trust, other then him. If he says something, it should be one of things, that tell you, it maybe a time to rethink the relationship.
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