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Post by lusciouslois on Jun 13, 2006 9:11:43 GMT -5
Do any of you know anyone like this? One of my best friends can't be alone. Everytime he dates, he won't drop the woman he is unhappy with until he finds another one. Even being married twice, he didnt separate or divorce until he had another woman available.
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Post by pelicanguy on Jun 13, 2006 9:21:14 GMT -5
Oh heck naw. No way I can do that. In the past, if she was no good, she was kicked to the curb.
Your friend needs to let all that stress go.
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Post by Blaque on Jun 13, 2006 9:38:41 GMT -5
Do any of you know anyone like this? One of my best friends can't be alone. Everytime he dates, he won't drop the woman he is unhappy with until he finds another one. Even being married twice, he didnt separate or divorce until he had another woman available. People like that will never find happiness in a relationship. If a person don't know happiness and contentment as a single person they will NEVER know it in a relationship either. Some people go from relationship to relationship or hold on to bad relationships because they are looking for someone else to bring them happiness. The irony is that if they let go and learn to love themselves first, they will find themselves in a much better place.
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Post by lusciouslois on Jun 13, 2006 9:58:06 GMT -5
Oh heck naw. No way I can do that. In the past, if she was no good, she was kicked to the curb. Your friend needs to let all that stress go. it has been going on for too long....if some woman wasnt good enough for him he will hold on to her and be looking for the next one at the same time..then when he thinks he has found her, he drops Miss no good.
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Post by dolphinfan on Jun 13, 2006 18:50:34 GMT -5
Do any of you know anyone like this? One of my best friends can't be alone. Everytime he dates, he won't drop the woman he is unhappy with until he finds another one. Even being married twice, he didnt separate or divorce until he had another woman available. Yes many men, can't live without something warm next to them!! women too, if they can help it.
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Post by Blaque on Jun 13, 2006 18:56:12 GMT -5
Can't or choose not to?
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Post by dolphinfan on Jun 13, 2006 20:53:13 GMT -5
Can'T, it like a baby that needs it's teddy bear, to feel comfortable to sleep. I could never understood it, myself. but there are people like that!!! and I know a few.
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Post by Blaque on Jun 13, 2006 21:17:50 GMT -5
I think people condition themselves into believing that they can't function without a member of the opposite sex in their life. In all actuality, they CAN. It's not like life as they know it will cease to exist. People choose to go from relation to relationship and after a while they start believing that they have to have someone all the time. It's what I image being on drugs is like. A person doesn't have to be high all the time. It's just that after using for so long, they forget what it feels like to be clean and sober. Being high is all they know.
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Post by dolphinfan on Jun 13, 2006 21:19:07 GMT -5
I think people condition themselves into believing that they can't function without a member of the opposite sex in their life. In all actuality, they CAN. It's not like life as they know it will cease to exist. People choose to go from relation to relationship and after a while they start believing that they have to have someone all the time. It's what I image being on drugs is like. A person doesn't have to be high all the time. It's just that after using for so long, they forget what it feels like to be clean and sober. Being high is all they know. I agree!!
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