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Post by lusciouslois on Jun 13, 2006 11:09:37 GMT -5
*sigh* this female I know broke up with her boyfriend of four years late last year for various reasons. NOW he wants to call her everyday, account for where he goes, what he does, and other things- things he refused to do when they were together. He is not trying to find another woman but when they were together, she was not to question his female friends. She in turn goes with him to the casino, loans him money, talks to him everyday, etc. In my opinion, that is giving him false hope and misleading him, PLUS she now has a boyfriend overseas who will be here in the states NEXT month and she hasnt told the ex about him. I feel that she didnt need to tell him anything but since she keeps hanging out with the ex, she does need to tell him and not wait til new guy is here.
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jazzlover
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Post by jazzlover on Jun 13, 2006 11:13:15 GMT -5
It is important to be honest with people, and when the truth is told both parties have to deal with it, many time people are afraid of hurting someones feeling and lead them on because of that but that just delays the inevitable.
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Post by lusciouslois on Jun 13, 2006 11:18:34 GMT -5
It is important to be honest with people, and when the truth is told both parties have to deal with it, many time people are afraid of hurting someones feeling and lead them on because of that but that just delays the inevitable. that is true and even though "two wrongs don't make a right," he inflicted plenty of hurt on her so I dont feel she owes him anything, but now that New guy is almost here, she is going to have to tell Old boy the truth, unless she wants to explain to New guy why old boy keeps calling and/or coming by.
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Post by Blaque on Jun 13, 2006 12:26:51 GMT -5
I think the woman is wrong in this situation. If she has a man, why is she hanging out with her ex? Does her current boyfriend know that she is hanging out with her ex man? Probably not, right? This is a case of her having her cake and eating it too. Even though things didn't go well while she and this last guy were together, it doesn't give her a license to lead him on. This is gonna get messy.
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Post by lusciouslois on Jun 13, 2006 12:33:18 GMT -5
I think the woman is wrong in this situation. If she has a man, why is she hanging out with her ex? Does her current boyfriend know that she is hanging out with her ex man? Probably not, right? This is a case of her having her cake and eating it too. Even though things didn't go well while she and this last guy were together, it doesn't give her a license to lead him on. This is gonna get messy. the current boyfriend knows about the ex but not how much they hang out together. He would blow a gasket
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Post by pelicanguy on Jun 13, 2006 14:00:17 GMT -5
She is definitely leading the ex on......and she definitely needs to tell him about her new man before he gets back...or all hell will break loose.
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Post by blackviking on Jun 13, 2006 14:19:53 GMT -5
All three of them deserve exactly what they going to get for not playing by the rules.
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Post by Blaque on Jun 13, 2006 14:36:24 GMT -5
She is definitely leading the ex on......and she definitely needs to tell him about her new man before he gets back...or all hell will break loose. People seldom do the right thing. They all pretty much deserve each other.
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Post by dolphinfan on Jun 13, 2006 18:16:31 GMT -5
*sigh* this female I know broke up with her boyfriend of four years late last year for various reasons. NOW he wants to call her everyday, account for where he goes, what he does, and other things- things he refused to do when they were together. He is not trying to find another woman but when they were together, she was not to question his female friends. She in turn goes with him to the casino, loans him money, talks to him everyday, etc. In my opinion, that is giving him false hope and misleading him, PLUS she now has a boyfriend overseas who will be here in the states NEXT month and she hasnt told the ex about him. I feel that she didnt need to tell him anything but since she keeps hanging out with the ex, she does need to tell him and not wait til new guy is here. It's my oppinion, the guy(ole boy friend) already knows, that the other guy exist. I being single will let you know something, that women don't think men get!!!. You always want something you can't or shouldn't HAVE and when new boyfriend gets back, from WORK!!!. He will hear all the junk!!!, yall claim yall don't do!!! or rarely do!!!. It would not surprize me if the new guy doesn't already know, and have a little something ,something, on the side!!!. Thats how the REAL WORLD OF GAME!!! or one GAMEs-man-ship!! is PLAYED. if new guy gets home, and home doesn't feel like a home!!! and ole boy decides, he wants to act up!!!. the first thing you will here out this GIRL, is she just HATE JIGGERS, because they don't know how to ACT, and never grow UP!!. Meanwhile, they are taken away by the police, or worst, and she at a bar with the girls the next night, taking about us being doggs. Now Please make sure You understand this, I DON'T HATE THE PLAYER!!!!!, I HATE THE GAME!!!, and her game is ole and tired, especially, if new man is in the MILITARY, or just a MAN, trying to do right by her!!!. This is the Game that women claim, they never do!!!, but are EXSPERTS AT!!!. And all ole boyfriend has to do, is sit and wait!!!, let new man , do all the work, and he gets seconds!! sloppy seconds!!! . FELLAZ, this is why i don't put anything past a women!!!!. THANKS FOR SHARING, it just reaffirms, our claims. That women are the best players on the planet!!! PERIOD!!! and the BEST DAYUM LIARS YOU WILL EVER MEET!!!. Again,I DON'T HATE THE PLAYER, JUST THE GAME!!!.
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Post by Blaque on Jun 13, 2006 19:17:37 GMT -5
I'm so glad I don't allow drama in my life. I'm tired just reading all of that.
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