cinnaroll32
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Post by cinnaroll32 on Jun 16, 2006 3:03:05 GMT -5
Ladies, if you have a male friend that you can confide in as a friend or as a brother and you discussed almost everything with him would you be able to return to that friendship/relationship after an intimate encounter occured?
I can't because I will view that person like a brother or someone that I can turn to so it will be difficult to return to a friendship after becoming more intimate with that person.
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Post by lusciouslois on Jun 16, 2006 8:18:05 GMT -5
the guy that that happened with, I think we drifted apart after so many years because he is so wrapped up with other things and people (women) and I have other things going on too. This current close male friend and I, I dont ever see it going in an intimate way, because of his age (he is younger but a wise younger brother) and we don't look at each other in "that way."
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Post by Blaque on Jun 16, 2006 10:56:46 GMT -5
I guess if two people are extremely close, and then sex is involved, it will always change the dynamics of the friendship. I don't see how the friendship wouldn't change.
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Sista Chi
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Post by Sista Chi on Jun 18, 2006 14:55:03 GMT -5
Ummm, I have not had that experience, but I would imagine that you could not go back to talking to him like before. Unless there was no real feelings on either side, and maybe some YEARS down the line. It depends, but most likely not.
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drok9
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Post by drok9 on Jun 20, 2006 20:29:15 GMT -5
I had a very similar relationship like that. Prior to getting married, most of my friends were male and we talked about everything and anything ... they were cool. We hung out, talked on the phone, laughed, cried ... you name it ... we did it ... except cross that line.
A couple of them end of "trying" to cross the line and it truly destroyed the friendship. I felt so uncomfortable whenever I was around either of them. After trying to make the friendship work and numerous attempts to cross the line again, I broke off the friendship. I just did not see them in that way ... they were cool and I loved them like a brother but I was not willing to cross the line.
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