cinnaroll32
B.E. Sergeant
Happiness is the key.
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Post by cinnaroll32 on Jun 29, 2006 17:26:58 GMT -5
Did you ever find yourself in a relationship that you were afraid to love that person or show affection because of the fear of it not being returned, being used, or infidelity?
When I met my husband I really gave him a difficult time because of my previous realtionship but time allowed me to eventually return that love but it is very difficult when you have been hurt.
What is your experience if any?
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Post by lusciouslois on Jun 30, 2006 8:11:34 GMT -5
Cinny, I am the expert on being afraid to love. I got into a relationship a couple of years ago with much hesitation because of past bad experiences, but as soon as I "let my guard down" and fell in love, chit started happening. I do love someone right now but it is a long-distance thing.
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Post by Blaque on Jun 30, 2006 12:44:11 GMT -5
Did you ever find yourself in a relationship that you were afraid to love that person or show affection because of the fear of it not being returned, being used, or infidelity? When I met my husband I really gave him a difficult time because of my previous realtionship but time allowed me to eventually return that love but it is very difficult when you have been hurt. What is your experience if any? No, because once I am in a relationship it is because I have been shown love and affection. I don't jump into situations very easily so once I'm in, I love hard.
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drok9
B.E. Sergeant
Too Blessed To Be Stressed
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Post by drok9 on Jun 30, 2006 16:23:05 GMT -5
Nope, not for me either. Love is a beautiful thing. I do not fall in love easily and I've only had 2 loves in my life ... and only one of those was the real deal. The first one was with my high school sweetheart ... thought I loved him but as I got older I realized what I felt for him was "something" but definately not love.
The "real love" came after I met my husband.
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Sista Chi
B.E. Sergeant
There's No One Like Her
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Post by Sista Chi on Jun 30, 2006 23:31:37 GMT -5
I'm going through that now.
And I don't fall easily..heck most men can't hang with such a stunning Sista as me, anyway.
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Post by Blaque on Jul 1, 2006 17:45:44 GMT -5
I'm going through that now. And I don't fall easily..heck most men can't hang with such a stunning Sista as me, anyway. Toot toot!!! ;D
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Sista Chi
B.E. Sergeant
There's No One Like Her
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Post by Sista Chi on Jul 2, 2006 16:46:52 GMT -5
I'm going through that now. And I don't fall easily..heck most men can't hang with such a stunning Sista as me, anyway. Toot toot!!! ;D
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