cinnaroll32
B.E. Sergeant
Happiness is the key.
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Post by cinnaroll32 on Jul 6, 2006 8:54:07 GMT -5
How do you feel about staying at home and allowing your male companion or mate provide for you?
Personally, I have to work even it is a part time job. I need to feel that I have made some type of contribution. I have tried staying at home and it didn't work, I felt bored and just unproductive.
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Post by lusciouslois on Jul 6, 2006 9:13:51 GMT -5
I would love to be able to stay home but I would get bored also. I also wouldn't have to eventually hear his mouth about, "I pay all the bills, so....." or have to ask him for money for anything.
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drok9
B.E. Sergeant
Too Blessed To Be Stressed
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Post by drok9 on Jul 7, 2006 23:29:35 GMT -5
I did the "stay at home" thing for a year and it drove me nuts. There was absolutely nothing educational on tv during the day so I struggled with that. I also missed the adult daily conversation.
I love to work. I love to learn new things so I NEED to work to thrive. I also enjoy contributing to my household.
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sweetpie
B.E. Staff Sergeant
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Post by sweetpie on Jul 8, 2006 7:47:47 GMT -5
I have to work. I feel the need to contribute to the household and I would feel guilty if I didn't bring in anything. I have to contribute but I realize taking care of home is a contribution to the family, but which I wish I could do it better too.
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Post by Blaque on Jul 8, 2006 8:43:58 GMT -5
How do you feel about staying at home and allowing your male companion or mate provide for you? Even if I were in serious relationship, that wouldn't even be up for discussion. I can't depend on anyone but myself.
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Sista Chi
B.E. Sergeant
There's No One Like Her
Posts: 1,190
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Post by Sista Chi on Jul 8, 2006 14:43:10 GMT -5
I have no problem with staying at home and let him do the bread gathering, IF I HAVE KID(S). If not kids, then a part-time job is what I want...it's what waaaaaaaaaaant, it's what I want. I can still keep my resume looking nice, and go shoppin'!!!
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