cinnaroll32
B.E. Sergeant
Happiness is the key.
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Post by cinnaroll32 on Jul 10, 2006 1:01:08 GMT -5
If you found a telephone number or address in your man's wallet, pocket or personal belongings would you use it to find out who it belongs to, would you confront him, would you play the waiting game, or would you trust your man?
Personally, like I have been told by an older friend of mine is to always keep my eyes open. I would trust that he is doing nothing wrong but also I learn to keep alert in my relationship at all times and not be naive.
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Post by lusciouslois on Jul 10, 2006 8:50:53 GMT -5
My now ex would have numbers here and there at his apt out in the open, but with him being a store manager and a choir director, I wouldnt know if they were "business" numbers or "monkey business" numbers..... at some point in time if a man is doing wrong, the phone numbers would just be the tip of the iceberg.
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Post by Blaque on Jul 10, 2006 10:06:05 GMT -5
One telephone number wouldn't bother me because that could be anything. But if I were involved with someone who showed signs of being a dishonest person then I would definitely ask him about it or find out for myself. However, I am the kind of person who can't function in relationships where I am constantly in guarded mode. If a man isn't trustworthy he gets the boot. I don't have time to play games.
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drok9
B.E. Sergeant
Too Blessed To Be Stressed
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Post by drok9 on Jul 10, 2006 21:24:43 GMT -5
If my "man" had a history of cheating or I did not trust him than the number would become an issue.
I found a number in my "ex's" pants pocket and I called the darn thing and found out that he was indeed cheating on me with some other woman. I was very professional and polite about the thing and I'm glad I called otherwise I would have only had suspicions that he was doing something. Afterwards, I confronted him because I had proof. Everytime I mentioned my concerns to him (without any proof) he made me feel like I was loosing my mind.
I've had several women call me asking me about their boyfriends. I have always been honest with them because I've been there.
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