cinnaroll32
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Happiness is the key.
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Post by cinnaroll32 on Oct 11, 2006 11:33:19 GMT -5
Ladies, what would you do if another woman wrote you and told you that she was seeing your hubby/SO?
I would initally investigate before I say anything because if I ask to soon he might start to cover up.
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Post by Blaque on Oct 11, 2006 11:55:01 GMT -5
I think a woman would know if her man was doing something that he shouldn’t be doing. Usually these things don’t happen out of the blue. But if a woman sent me a letter, I would contact her and request that we talked about it woman to woman. I agree with you Cinna, I would need hard evidence before I confronted my man.
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Post by lusciouslois on Oct 11, 2006 12:14:50 GMT -5
A woman should know but we know that some men are slicker than a can of oil and can get away with a lot of stuff, especially if the couple doesnt spend a lot of time together (from a boyfriend/girlfriend point of view versus live-ins or married people) Some men can talk their way out of a paper bag, so they can talk their way out of a phone call or letter. Some women can have hard evidence in their face and will NEVER believe it. If said women left a phone number or address, I would talk to her and see what was what.
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unfathomablej
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Post by unfathomablej on Oct 11, 2006 12:31:05 GMT -5
I would get everything together before confronting him, part of me wouldn't even waste time with something long and drawn out. Simply let him know it's over.
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Post by Blaque on Oct 11, 2006 14:06:52 GMT -5
A woman should know but we know that some men are slicker than a can of oil and can get away with a lot of stuff, especially if the couple doesnt spend a lot of time together (from a boyfriend/girlfriend point of view versus live-ins or married people) Some men can talk their way out of a paper bag, so they can talk their way out of a phone call or letter. Some women can have hard evidence in their face and will NEVER believe it. You are right LL. We all arrive at that moment of clarity in our own time and in our own way.
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Sista Chi
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Post by Sista Chi on Oct 11, 2006 23:25:12 GMT -5
I would need a face to face talk with the woman first.
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Post by Blaque on Oct 12, 2006 7:58:06 GMT -5
I would need a face to face talk with the woman first. I would take a girlfriend with me. Ole girl could get violent.
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cinnaroll32
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Post by cinnaroll32 on Oct 16, 2006 13:38:05 GMT -5
I would need a face to face talk with the woman first. I would take a girlfriend with me. Ole girl could get violent.
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drok9
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Post by drok9 on Oct 18, 2006 21:59:49 GMT -5
Been there done that! I had one call me and show up at my apartment. We talked ... I made it clear to her that we were being duped and my beef was not with her so we had a friendly conversation. She told me everything I knew about him even down to his secret that he requested singles when he cashed his check so it looked like he had a wad of money.
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