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Post by Blaque on Oct 24, 2006 11:37:09 GMT -5
How many of you have lashed out, approached, confronted, fought another woman because of your man ? Do you think it is your right to do that if need be?? Please share.
I say be honest, because alot of women talk about how they would never do it, but when the rubber hits the road- they are calling the OW, emailing her, rolling by her job etc.
I feel like it is our job as women to share and learn thru each others experiences. If you did something in the past, it is in the past- you learn from it and grow and then share what you have learned along the way.
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Sista Chi
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Post by Sista Chi on Oct 24, 2006 12:14:15 GMT -5
That man made the commitment to me. Not her.
She has a moral responsibility to respect her fellow 'sister', but she is not obligated to do so.
I hold HIM accountable. Doesn't mean I excuse her, but I'm not going to fight her, unless it's self defense.
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drok9
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Post by drok9 on Oct 24, 2006 17:33:19 GMT -5
No. If I get upset with anyone its with the man ... he knows about me ... she may not and if she does .... they deserve each other and I have no problem stepping out of the picture ...she can have that mess.
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mia
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Post by mia on Oct 25, 2006 5:46:18 GMT -5
I can't say that I've ever done that.
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Post by Blaque on Oct 25, 2006 10:02:20 GMT -5
Wow, such maturity. I’m impressed ladies…now for my story…
I’ve never confronted a woman that I thought was seeing my man, but I did instigate a situation with another woman and my best friend. LOL. I don’t know why I was the one to call my friend’s man’s house but she was standing next to me and I made the call. Imagine my shock when a woman answered the phone. I asked “Who is this?” She said “I’m so and so’s girlfriend”
To make a long story short, my girlfriend and I went over to the guy’s house. We talked to the other woman until the guy showed up. Chaos ensued. The police was called. And in the end, he continued to see both of them.
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Sista Chi
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Post by Sista Chi on Oct 26, 2006 22:34:11 GMT -5
LOL..wow. And thank you for the compliment, Ms. Blaque.
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Post by Blaque on Oct 27, 2006 7:35:58 GMT -5
You're welcome!!!
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Post by lusciouslois on Oct 27, 2006 7:49:36 GMT -5
Wow, such maturity. I’m impressed ladies…now for my story… I’ve never confronted a woman that I thought was seeing my man, but I did instigate a situation with another woman and my best friend. LOL. I don’t know why I was the one to call my friend’s man’s house but she was standing next to me and I made the call. Imagine my shock when a woman answered the phone. I asked “Who is this?” She said “I’m so and so’s girlfriend” To make a long story short, my girlfriend and I went over to the guy’s house. We talked to the other woman until the guy showed up. Chaos ensued. The police was called. And in the end, he continued to see both of them. BOTH of them?? *sigh* so he continued to have his cake and eat it too
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Post by Blaque on Oct 27, 2006 7:54:13 GMT -5
Yes, after all of that drama THEY allowed him to have his cake and eat it too.
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