cinnaroll32
B.E. Sergeant
Happiness is the key.
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Post by cinnaroll32 on Oct 25, 2006 0:06:33 GMT -5
How long do you cling on to a relationship that you know can't work or is falling apart right before your eyes?
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mia
B.E. Member First Class
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Post by mia on Oct 25, 2006 5:24:46 GMT -5
Cinnaroll32 I have seen people hold on forever and also people who give up right away. For me, when my partner stops trying it's time to walk away. I figure I can't save a relationship all by myself.
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Post by Blaque on Oct 25, 2006 18:34:39 GMT -5
How long do you cling on to a relationship that you know can't work or is falling apart right before your eyes? Life is too short to waste it chasing the wind. If there is nothing left of the relationship, move on. I make it a rule not to waste precious time.
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sweetpie
B.E. Staff Sergeant
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Post by sweetpie on Oct 25, 2006 22:20:25 GMT -5
On a worthless relationship 5 minutes is too long...
1. If a man cannot at least show you his quality within the first few months of you meeting him, that will unfortunately be the highlight of the relationship.
2. Any woman worth her salt will not cling to a dead end relationship and will use her common sense...
a. Problem: most choose not to ergo doormat syndrome. Most women will do whatever it takes to have a man even if it means she will cry, suffer lonliness or take abuse.
I can tell you what to do until cows fly and you won't do it...
A woman will stay until her limit has been reached...
Not a moment before.
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drok9
B.E. Sergeant
Too Blessed To Be Stressed
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Post by drok9 on Oct 26, 2006 18:03:13 GMT -5
I dated my high school sweetheart for 11 years and it was 11 years too long but no regrets ... we learned about each other and why we didn't need to be together.
After I grew up I decided that I hold onto no relationship unless I am married to the guy and we can work things out ... otherwise ... I'm like the wind baby!
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sweetpie
B.E. Staff Sergeant
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Post by sweetpie on Oct 26, 2006 18:23:32 GMT -5
I dated my high school sweetheart for 11 years and it was 11 years too long but no regrets ... we learned about each other and why we didn't need to be together. After I grew up I decided that I hold onto no relationship unless I am married to the guy and we can work things out ... otherwise ... I'm like the wind baby! Now THAT's the way to be... life is too short.
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Sista Chi
B.E. Sergeant
There's No One Like Her
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Post by Sista Chi on Oct 26, 2006 22:32:29 GMT -5
For me, when my partner stops trying it's time to walk away. I figure I can't save a relationship all by myself. That's it for me..
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