cinnaroll32
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Happiness is the key.
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Post by cinnaroll32 on Nov 2, 2006 4:09:18 GMT -5
Do you believe in living with your SO before marriage? If so, when is the line drawn for a serious commitment?
The older I got I realized that living together with someone wasn't for me especially with my daughters. I didn't want them to think that is the correct way. I lived with my hubby about 2 years before we got married.
How about you, what is your take on this?
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Post by Blaque on Nov 2, 2006 9:05:03 GMT -5
In a way, I think it’s a good method of learning more about the person you want to spend the rest of your life with. You never really know a person until you live with them. But on the other hand, it’s easy to settle in to that routine and never really commit.
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drok9
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Post by drok9 on Nov 2, 2006 20:51:15 GMT -5
You can still learn about someone without living with them. There are plenty of people who lived with their lovers and still didn't know them. Besides, the things you need to know about a person should come from spending time with that person and asking questions like how much debt are you in, what do you feel about "credit" ... do you pay your bills on time? What is your financial goals for the future? Are you neat or a pig?
I feel like if I'm good enough to shack up with and we are living like we are married than why not get married. If thats too much or too deep than you don't need to live together.
My mother always told me "Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free?"
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mia
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Post by mia on Nov 3, 2006 6:50:40 GMT -5
I agree with drok9, living with a man is something that I will never do.
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