Post by vlm123 on Nov 9, 2006 10:45:35 GMT -5
admin said:
sweetpie said:
When will he learn? If Bec gave him two seconds of time his azz will get effed up in some way. It ALWAYS seem to happen. All she has to say is, he hurt me or raped me or something when she doesn't get what she wants.
I know, right? A brother has more to loose messing with a white woman than he does dating a sista.
PLUS, the thing that kills me is that they will phuck with any ole stank looking white woman, but if we are not on point, we get passed up.
And yes, half the time it's a brother that I would never want any way, but it's the principle. . Why will a black man date a fat out of shade white woman, but put down sisters who don't take care of themselves?
When I leave the house with my hair pulled back or no make up on, no one says anything to me. But when I have my hair down, make up on, and dressed decently, brothas try to step to me. (even though they swear they don't like high maintenance women). The only time I get attention is when I'm in high maintenance mode.
You know, when I first moved to Minnesota, I thought I was the only one who thought that! LOL
Same for me, though - If I am wearing something short, form-fitting and/or with boobs hanging out and wearing long braids and makeup, BAM, brothas come out the woodwork. But I've noticed many a brotha up here with some to'up-tuation!! WOO! I mean, i look at me and look and some of the women the brothas are with, and I'm thinking, "I KNOW I don't look THAT bad, do I?" LOL
I've also noticed that most MEN in general, not just brothas, think they can walk around looking, smelling and being any old way, but still think they are fine and that all women should want them. UGH.