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Post by Blaque on Dec 26, 2006 13:36:54 GMT -5
By that I mean, have you ever dated a man you thought was gay or later found out was gay?
What about him made you suspicious? What were the signs (if any)?
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drok9
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Post by drok9 on Dec 26, 2006 14:00:25 GMT -5
Unfortunately yes and he was my first boyfriend in high school. He always dressed nice. Because I was not allowed boys calling my house he would call as a girl named "LISA" .. LOL !
I found out a couple of years ago that he came out of the closet and is telling everyone is gay and has been for some time. Thank goodness we never did anything.
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Post by Blaque on Dec 26, 2006 14:04:02 GMT -5
It really bothers me to think that I could have slept with a man who is also sleeping with men.
There has been two men that I have some suspicions about but I could never prove it.
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Sista Chi
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Post by Sista Chi on Dec 26, 2006 22:04:27 GMT -5
It really bothers me to think that I could have slept with a man who is also sleeping with men. I know it would irk the heezy out of me too. There is one possiblity, but I ain't sure., so until I'm sure, I will assume he's straight.
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Post by sweetpie on Dec 27, 2006 5:34:34 GMT -5
"There is one possiblity, but I ain't sure., so until I'm sure, I will assume he's straight."
Yeah, but if they are still in the closet they will lie! I would just be careful not to go to bed with him! Especially with all of that down low mess.
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Sista Chi
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Post by Sista Chi on Dec 27, 2006 20:52:07 GMT -5
"There is one possiblity, but I ain't sure., so until I'm sure, I will assume he's straight." Yeah, but if they are still in the closet they will lie! I would just be careful not to go to bed with him! Especially with all of that down low mess. Yeah, you are right, but fortunately we ain't never back there again.
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Post by Blaque on Dec 28, 2006 12:35:40 GMT -5
There was one guy I was dating who was in the Navy. There would be times when we'd be at his house and the phone would ring. He would let the machine come on and when the "man" started leaving a message, he would jump up and turn the machine off and say "Fucking Faggot". Then there were the gerbils. Have any of you heard rumors about what gay men do with gerbils? ANYWAY out of the clear blue sky he bought some gerbils and then all of a sudden the cage was there but the gerbils were gone. He said he gave them to a friend's kid. OK, we remained on again off again friends throughout the years. He started calling me a few years back. Then one day I saw his name on my caller ID but when I answered the phone it was some guy who had the wrong number. Ummm, I never asked him who the man was calling from his cell phone. He's still in the Navy so I don't expect him to come out of the closet, but there were just too many unusual things that went on during the time that we've known each other. He tried to make a "booty call" earlier this summer when he was in the area but I was like . I didn't even return his calls. I'm not going out like that.
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Post by sudan on Jan 6, 2007 3:40:20 GMT -5
I did not only date the man, I married him!! He had gay tendencies and had told me he HAD experienced or had dabbled a bit. Before we married we had tests so he was clean. All I can say is.....he loves to cook, he cleans a house better than me.....and last but certainly not the least....we had GOOD....Damn GOOD ~ Freaky LOVIN'!!! But the way it is today....I don't think I would take that road again.
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Sista Chi
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Post by Sista Chi on Jan 6, 2007 15:11:36 GMT -5
WOW!!! You guys obviously ended amicably tho. That's a rarity.
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