jazzlover
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It Takes Pressure to Make a Diamond
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Post by jazzlover on May 30, 2006 15:50:33 GMT -5
Why do white woman throw themselves at brothers? I was minding my business, and a white lady at the hospital waved the "draws flag" in my face....basically she told me she was interested, it blows my mind how freee and agressive these women are.
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Post by blackviking on May 30, 2006 16:30:46 GMT -5
White women like Black men for the same reason that all other women do. We are unique and different. There aren't that many of us around. If a lady can find a Brotha with a job, is not in prison, and is not gay... score!!![/b]
Women get bored easily. They're always looking for something new and different. I think the only real difference (when it comes to dating and mating) between Black women and other women is... Black women take us for granted. Many of them don't realize how badly other women want us, and how many Brothas just naturally go where they are wanted. My experience is that it takes a lot more than being straight, having a job, and staying out of prison, to turn a Sister's head.
Just remember... all women are more alike, than they are different.
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jazzlover
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Post by jazzlover on May 30, 2006 16:35:28 GMT -5
I agree at times they DO take us for granted!
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Post by dolphinfan on May 30, 2006 19:43:23 GMT -5
White women like Black men for the same reason that all other women do. We are unique and different. There aren't that many of us around. If a lady can find a Brotha with a job, is not in prison, and is not gay... score!!![/b] Women get bored easily. They're always looking for something new and different. I think the only real difference (when it comes to dating and mating) between Black women and other women is... Black women take us for granted. Many of them don't realize how badly other women want us, and how many Brothas just naturally go where they are wanted. My experience is that it takes a lot more than being straight, having a job, and staying out of prison, to turn a Sister's head. Just remember... all women are more alike, than they are different.[/quote] AMEN TO THAT MY BROTHER AMEN!!!
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Post by pelicanguy on May 30, 2006 23:30:58 GMT -5
You got that right, Viking. A lot of women like a man who's exciting, not average, so a lot of the so-called good guys get passed over. Well, the good guy one woman passes over is a gold mine for another woman, regardless of race. Then the woman who passed him over wants to get all upset and complain that there are no good man. Hell, she told him to get to steppin'. She got what she deserved.
Unfortunately, it seems that more women of other races are becoming hip to being with the average black guy...who's a good guy handling his business.
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jazzlover
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Post by jazzlover on May 31, 2006 8:57:48 GMT -5
I think you make a good point the average looking brothers often gets no looks from sisters, I went through High School DATELESS because I wore glasses like Rog on WHATS HAPPENING! But even back then white girls wouls talk to me, sisters have to realize that nice guys make the best husbands NOT the fly bad boys that get them pregnant and LEAVE!
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Post by pelicanguy on May 31, 2006 9:22:29 GMT -5
It's pretty simple: Do you want to be with a woman who appreciates you for who you are, or do you want to be miserable with a woman who will constantly find fault with you?
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Post by dolphinfan on May 31, 2006 22:02:58 GMT -5
It's about the numbers!!!!!!, white women out number white men, and they get horny too!!! so more of them are willing to try something new, then say the average black woman. i get hit on a lot by Spanish women. A lot of them just want a hit, too. i think what this really boils down to is what you want, and when you want it. Sistahs know, that there shyt is in demand, so they play harder to get.
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Post by pelicanguy on Jun 1, 2006 8:26:11 GMT -5
Even though black women outnumber black men too? You would think the sistas would get their act together to attract the brothers.
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Post by dolphinfan on Jun 5, 2006 21:19:10 GMT -5
Even though black women outnumber black men too? You would think the sistas would get their act together to attract the brothers. BrotherB, don't let some of theses TIRED sistahs fool you!!! they are in HIGH demand and know it. Remember this, I think you said you are about 29 or so!!! well your generation of sistahs ain't waitin for no brotha, they are lovin them and leavin them, for hispanics, islanders, and whatever catches there EYE!! Because unlike my generation and older Whites are not afraid to say they like Blackwomen, they have always loved them, but not in the open,like today!!!
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Post by blackviking on Jun 5, 2006 21:40:05 GMT -5
Even though black women outnumber black men too? You would think the sistas would get their act together to attract the brothers. BrotherB, don't let some of theses TIRED sistahs fool you!!! they are in HIGH demand and know it. Sisters are in demand... but not as much as Brothers. The pool of Black men that are not gay, in prison, or unemployed is much smaller than it is for Black women. Of all the groups of men in this country, we are the smallest, and therefore the most sought after, breed. That's not entirely true. 11% of Black men inter-racially date/marry, versus 4.5% of Black women. On both sides of the line... the VAST majority of us date and marry other Black folks.
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Post by pelicanguy on Jun 6, 2006 0:14:45 GMT -5
Yeah.....many of us are with the losers of the group.
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Post by dolphinfan on Jun 13, 2006 20:29:43 GMT -5
Even though black women outnumber black men too? You would think the sistas would get their act together to attract the brothers. No and why should they!!!.Black women are ToDAYS HOTT TICKET, she comes in every flavor and make them all look good!!!. I think the real problem is, most could or wouldn't date a good black man because of fear of rejection!!!. most have put up with so much crap, from super home boy, that the though of having to relearn what it mens to be with a man. make s some cringe.
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Post by dolphinfan on Jun 13, 2006 20:38:32 GMT -5
BrotherB, don't let some of theses TIRED sistahs fool you!!! they are in HIGH demand and know it. Sisters are in demand... but not as much as Brothers. The pool of Black men that are not gay, in prison, or unemployed is much smaller than it is for Black women. Of all the groups of men in this country, we are the smallest, and therefore the most sought after, breed. That's not entirely true. 11% of Black men inter-racially date/marry, versus 4.5% of Black women. On both sides of the line... the VAST majority of us date and marry other Black folks. The numbers you quote mean nothing to a human being who is horny and alone!!!. Hispanic men are KILLING(sexing) some of theses Black women!!!, they just ain't bragging about it like black men do!!!( at least to us). I mention in another post, about how most if not all of my nieces are MARRYING HISPAINC MEN!!!!!!! and I have about 16 of them, with about 7 of them being married, to hispanic men. We are being phased out, slowly but surely!! each generation!!!!!!!!!
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Post by pelicanguy on Jun 13, 2006 22:39:48 GMT -5
A good point was made about the number of eligible straight men. We are in short supply and black women in general have lots of comptetition now. They thought they had us on lockdown with their looks and what's between their legs, but a lot of us good guys for the most part want more than that....and women of other races are starting to notice that.
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