Post by jazzlover on Jun 9, 2006 2:52:49 GMT -5
First, start with some soft kissing on her lips (the ones on her head ). Let this make out session progress into more passionate kissing. Slowly break away and begin kissing the side of her face, then her neck letting your breath lightly brush her skin. At this stage, hopefully your partner’s blood pressure is starting to raise sending blood into the RIGHT places (i.e; her breasts, vagina, and clitoris). Both of you should be breathing a little harder and your hands are all over each other.
Try everything physically and mentally in your power to prevent yourself from going between her legs just yet. The idea is to tease her, not try and win the game in the first half. The kisses you were performing on her neck should be moving down toward her lower neck and upper chest. If her shirt is not off by this time, you may want to slowly (I SAID SLOWLY) begin removing it. The idea here is to show her you are patient and slow, not going for the kill. I would recommend either having her remove the bra or you doing it. Begin moving your kisses down on to her chest. Plant your kisses all over her chest and neck, and try to actually stay away from her nipples. The nipples and clitoris are two of most sensitive places on a womens body, so you must treat them with respect and tenderness.
Run your tongue over areas of her breasts and let your tongue lightly brush her nipples. Give them a little stimulation, but not too much. Again, we are WARMING your girl up. Once some more kisses have been planted, move your mouth over one of her nipples and very lightly suck on them, pulling the nipple up into your lips. While doing so, make sure you are running your tongue over the nipples in various angles. DO NOT SUCK HARD
After several minutes of kissing of her chest, move back up placing kisses back up her neck, around her ears and continue kissing her on the lips. While doing so, caress the back of her hair/head with one hand while lightly rubbing her back with the other.
If you have found your partner enjoys dirty talk, you may want to consider saying something into her ear such as “I want to taste you”. Something along the lines of “I want to taste your buttercup” might not be the best of phrases to use.
Again move down her chest placing kisses and begin moving over her stomach.
Are her pants still on? If so, use this to your advantage and be slick about it. While kissing down her stomach over her naval, grab the sides of her pants and begin SLOWLY wiggling them down over her butt and thighs. Remember, go slow…we aren’t trying to win a race. The worst thing you can do is ask her to remove her pants and panties. As I said, use this position to your advantage to show you the passion and interest you have. As her pants are slid off, run your face, lips, and mouth over her mound (assuming she still has her panties on). If you are lucky, you might even see a wet spot forming (this is a GREAT THING!)
After her pants have been slid off, hopefully your head is below her mound or near her knees. Now you have open access to her thighs. Begin planting kisses and running your tongue on parts of her thighs. There is no need to coat it with a thin film of your juices…but you don’t want it dry as the desert either. Work your way up to her inner thighs. You most likely can smell her odor by this time. Whether or not you like the smell of her is irrelavent, your job is to please her and you SHOULD at minimum ACT like you enjoy what your doing.
If her panties are still on, leave them on. After kissing her thighs, run your tongue over the center of her panties where her vagina would be. This little action will be / should be the first time you have made contact with her down there. This should also fire an impulse up to her brain which sends an impule back to her vagina saying “ooh, that felt good”. This also helps build her arousal level. Now, I said run your tongue over it, don’t actually begin the act of eating her out. Even if her hands are now on the back of your head pushing you closer, lightly grab her hands and whisper “patience my dear, your time is coming” or something to that effect. Figure out what you want to say, but the point is to elongate this entire process on YOUR time table, not hers.
After your tongue has spent a few seconds on her panties, move back up to her lower stomach and kiss in that area. Run your tongue down into the rim of her panties signaling to her that you are going to begin working your way lower. Take your fingers and slowly begin lowering her panties while maintaing your tongues position. If she has pubic hair (some girls shave, some don’t…hopefully she has trimmed) continue your process (it’s just hair). As the panties begin to lower, continue lowering your mouth and tongue. The idea behind this movement is that we are going to let your tongue very lightly run over her vagina slit, and hopefully part of her clitoris. This action is literally going to take no longer then about 2 seconds. The idea is to give her a small taste (and yourself too ) but to hopefully send a chill up her spine. Again, we are placing her in anticipation and raising her arousal level.
Finish pulling of her panties and begin kissing to the left and right of her vagina, but not on her vagina lips. Run your tongue on her inner thighs and from time to time let your tongue DRAG across her vagina lips while getting to her other thigh. “Hopefully”, by this time you can visually see her lips slightly opening or becoming engorged. Some womens clits are large and others are small, so you may even seen some engorgement with the clitoris.
Run your hands up her stomach to her breast to lightly rub on them. While paying attention to her inner thighs, let your hands roam her body including her butt. At this time, you can also begin the process of opening her legs to give you greater access to her “WORLD according to Dave Mathhews Band”. Hopefully you see more wetness leaking from her. This again is a great sign.
Try everything physically and mentally in your power to prevent yourself from going between her legs just yet. The idea is to tease her, not try and win the game in the first half. The kisses you were performing on her neck should be moving down toward her lower neck and upper chest. If her shirt is not off by this time, you may want to slowly (I SAID SLOWLY) begin removing it. The idea here is to show her you are patient and slow, not going for the kill. I would recommend either having her remove the bra or you doing it. Begin moving your kisses down on to her chest. Plant your kisses all over her chest and neck, and try to actually stay away from her nipples. The nipples and clitoris are two of most sensitive places on a womens body, so you must treat them with respect and tenderness.
Run your tongue over areas of her breasts and let your tongue lightly brush her nipples. Give them a little stimulation, but not too much. Again, we are WARMING your girl up. Once some more kisses have been planted, move your mouth over one of her nipples and very lightly suck on them, pulling the nipple up into your lips. While doing so, make sure you are running your tongue over the nipples in various angles. DO NOT SUCK HARD
After several minutes of kissing of her chest, move back up placing kisses back up her neck, around her ears and continue kissing her on the lips. While doing so, caress the back of her hair/head with one hand while lightly rubbing her back with the other.
If you have found your partner enjoys dirty talk, you may want to consider saying something into her ear such as “I want to taste you”. Something along the lines of “I want to taste your buttercup” might not be the best of phrases to use.
Again move down her chest placing kisses and begin moving over her stomach.
Are her pants still on? If so, use this to your advantage and be slick about it. While kissing down her stomach over her naval, grab the sides of her pants and begin SLOWLY wiggling them down over her butt and thighs. Remember, go slow…we aren’t trying to win a race. The worst thing you can do is ask her to remove her pants and panties. As I said, use this position to your advantage to show you the passion and interest you have. As her pants are slid off, run your face, lips, and mouth over her mound (assuming she still has her panties on). If you are lucky, you might even see a wet spot forming (this is a GREAT THING!)
After her pants have been slid off, hopefully your head is below her mound or near her knees. Now you have open access to her thighs. Begin planting kisses and running your tongue on parts of her thighs. There is no need to coat it with a thin film of your juices…but you don’t want it dry as the desert either. Work your way up to her inner thighs. You most likely can smell her odor by this time. Whether or not you like the smell of her is irrelavent, your job is to please her and you SHOULD at minimum ACT like you enjoy what your doing.
If her panties are still on, leave them on. After kissing her thighs, run your tongue over the center of her panties where her vagina would be. This little action will be / should be the first time you have made contact with her down there. This should also fire an impulse up to her brain which sends an impule back to her vagina saying “ooh, that felt good”. This also helps build her arousal level. Now, I said run your tongue over it, don’t actually begin the act of eating her out. Even if her hands are now on the back of your head pushing you closer, lightly grab her hands and whisper “patience my dear, your time is coming” or something to that effect. Figure out what you want to say, but the point is to elongate this entire process on YOUR time table, not hers.
After your tongue has spent a few seconds on her panties, move back up to her lower stomach and kiss in that area. Run your tongue down into the rim of her panties signaling to her that you are going to begin working your way lower. Take your fingers and slowly begin lowering her panties while maintaing your tongues position. If she has pubic hair (some girls shave, some don’t…hopefully she has trimmed) continue your process (it’s just hair). As the panties begin to lower, continue lowering your mouth and tongue. The idea behind this movement is that we are going to let your tongue very lightly run over her vagina slit, and hopefully part of her clitoris. This action is literally going to take no longer then about 2 seconds. The idea is to give her a small taste (and yourself too ) but to hopefully send a chill up her spine. Again, we are placing her in anticipation and raising her arousal level.
Finish pulling of her panties and begin kissing to the left and right of her vagina, but not on her vagina lips. Run your tongue on her inner thighs and from time to time let your tongue DRAG across her vagina lips while getting to her other thigh. “Hopefully”, by this time you can visually see her lips slightly opening or becoming engorged. Some womens clits are large and others are small, so you may even seen some engorgement with the clitoris.
Run your hands up her stomach to her breast to lightly rub on them. While paying attention to her inner thighs, let your hands roam her body including her butt. At this time, you can also begin the process of opening her legs to give you greater access to her “WORLD according to Dave Mathhews Band”. Hopefully you see more wetness leaking from her. This again is a great sign.