Post by dolphinfan on Aug 5, 2006 7:31:40 GMT -5
Have you ever dated one!! who talk about it. I have dated many women, and been friends with even more, but there is nothing sadder, then being around one of these women, who cannot, and or will not relate to the ADULT world.
I personally know of two, but it's hard to be friends with a person, who is always conflicted, about choices they make as an adult. You try to talk to them, advise them, to get help. But they get angry. Then when you stop talking to them, they claim nobody in the world, likes them.
I didn't bring this up to be mean, but if you are not going to seek help, or worst, try to tell people HOW you want the helped (excuse to prolong getting help). STOP ASKING ME for ANSWERS!!!!!!!!!
What are your feelings and what have you done, to help a person, get help?
The two I met, are very quite types, you would never know, that this event happen in there life's. Very nice, and pleasant until you start to date them. Then all the emotional hell breaks out. I wouldn't choose it for my worst enemy. Both were very attractive and smart women. Physically fit.
You would have thunk, they would have dealt with it by now and let it go!!! or better yet, go out and help others. But neither of theses women did., and refuse too, to boot. ( I thought it would have been great THERAPY for them to help others, as well as, get a sense of not being along with this problem).
Anyway, I just wanted to hear your experiences, with theses type of women? From a mans point of view. I know this will bounce out of here, very soon, but thought it would be nice if we discussed it here first.
I personally know of two, but it's hard to be friends with a person, who is always conflicted, about choices they make as an adult. You try to talk to them, advise them, to get help. But they get angry. Then when you stop talking to them, they claim nobody in the world, likes them.
I didn't bring this up to be mean, but if you are not going to seek help, or worst, try to tell people HOW you want the helped (excuse to prolong getting help). STOP ASKING ME for ANSWERS!!!!!!!!!
What are your feelings and what have you done, to help a person, get help?
The two I met, are very quite types, you would never know, that this event happen in there life's. Very nice, and pleasant until you start to date them. Then all the emotional hell breaks out. I wouldn't choose it for my worst enemy. Both were very attractive and smart women. Physically fit.
You would have thunk, they would have dealt with it by now and let it go!!! or better yet, go out and help others. But neither of theses women did., and refuse too, to boot. ( I thought it would have been great THERAPY for them to help others, as well as, get a sense of not being along with this problem).
Anyway, I just wanted to hear your experiences, with theses type of women? From a mans point of view. I know this will bounce out of here, very soon, but thought it would be nice if we discussed it here first.