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Post by dolphinfan on Nov 4, 2006 8:12:01 GMT -5
I have never had an issue with any women, until we tried living together. It all centered around money and authority. I say if you are a modern couple, both should pay the monthly bills, or how ever you choose to divide the bills, based on your pay. But some of the women I meet , seem to think differently. They say;I will pay my fair share, but never do. Thats why I'm very reluctant to move a woman into my place. To the Authority aspect of my question, if she chooses to play meek and mild mannered, shouldn't I be able to go 1950s on her azz, and DEMAND, she do more around the house, besides look good. Without the fear of being called a shoven-nous pig? I ask this question, because some women want the best of both worlds, being a modern woman, but also being able to slip back to some era in the past, with out any thought at how this effect the man in the relatrionship, what advice can you give me? I don't know about you, but I'm sick and tired of it.
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Post by pelicanguy on Nov 4, 2006 15:12:55 GMT -5
Do not move in with a woman again unless you get married. Never, ever do that.
In my view, if you and she decides to get married, you guys should have a serious talk about the finances, who does what around the house and so forth. If you two aren't seeing eye to eye, don't get married. Then again, you should have a good idea of what kind of person she is while yall are getting to know each other.
As far as I know, men nor women are entitled to jack. I see it as a privilege for a women to be with me and so forth. I am more than willing to do my part, but she has to step up to the plate as well. If she isn't, she can go on about her business.
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Post by dolphinfan on Nov 4, 2006 15:40:51 GMT -5
Do not move in with a woman again unless you get married. Never, ever do that. In my view, if you and she decides to get married, you guys should have a serious talk about the finances, who does what around the house and so forth. If you two aren't seeing eye to eye, don't get married. Then again, you should have a good idea of what kind of person she is while yall are getting to know each other. As far as I know, men nor women are entitled to jack. I see it as a privilege for a women to be with me and so forth. I am more than willing to do my part, but she has to step up to the plate as well. If she isn't, she can go on about her business. I agree, my problem is, they say one thing and turn around and do another.
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