Post by dolphinfan on Nov 4, 2006 8:33:38 GMT -5
I'm bringing this up, not to stir up anger, but discussion.
I have no problem with women having sex, out side of marriage. But outside of rape, how many baby's can be blamed on the Black man...........alone.
I read in post about women who have had baby's ,by many men. But they never talk about there half of the equation. NEVER!!!!!!!
Don't women know about PROTECTION TOO!! why are Blackman demonetized to know end about baby's, and black women just get the brush over.
Overtime, i have sex, i have at least a rubber on. PERIOD, have I had sex without one, YES, and it happens. BUT, I'm responsible enough, to make sure the next time it happens, I don't run out.
But for the most part, the women I'm with are on the pill, or other type of conception.
Now I know some of you will try to move this, to a religious question,; THIS IS NOT A RELIGIOUS QUESTION,
THIS IS A RESPONSIBILITY QUESTION.
I say this, if you are gonna have sex, why not know what you need to know to protect your self??? why are women ALLOWED to make mistake after mistake, and just get a pat on the back. And why are men being blamed for a women, not setting rules for engagement.(SEX)
Now i know it's up to BOTH people to make sure there end of the protection game is taken care of, BUT, thats the conciliatory answer, I want to hear the truth from men.
Not GAY answers,* it's should be both of you* HEEEEEY .
I mean, I don't know about most of you, but I have met many well to do(smart women) who don't do protection, and feel it's completely up to the man to protect her!! during sex. I believe, I'm not alone on this, so lets hear it.
I have no problem with women having sex, out side of marriage. But outside of rape, how many baby's can be blamed on the Black man...........alone.
I read in post about women who have had baby's ,by many men. But they never talk about there half of the equation. NEVER!!!!!!!
Don't women know about PROTECTION TOO!! why are Blackman demonetized to know end about baby's, and black women just get the brush over.
Overtime, i have sex, i have at least a rubber on. PERIOD, have I had sex without one, YES, and it happens. BUT, I'm responsible enough, to make sure the next time it happens, I don't run out.
But for the most part, the women I'm with are on the pill, or other type of conception.
Now I know some of you will try to move this, to a religious question,; THIS IS NOT A RELIGIOUS QUESTION,
THIS IS A RESPONSIBILITY QUESTION.
I say this, if you are gonna have sex, why not know what you need to know to protect your self??? why are women ALLOWED to make mistake after mistake, and just get a pat on the back. And why are men being blamed for a women, not setting rules for engagement.(SEX)
Now i know it's up to BOTH people to make sure there end of the protection game is taken care of, BUT, thats the conciliatory answer, I want to hear the truth from men.
Not GAY answers,* it's should be both of you* HEEEEEY .
I mean, I don't know about most of you, but I have met many well to do(smart women) who don't do protection, and feel it's completely up to the man to protect her!! during sex. I believe, I'm not alone on this, so lets hear it.