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Post by dolphinfan on Dec 9, 2006 13:03:28 GMT -5
I ask this of the men who are not scared, to answer. ARE BLACK MEN CRAZY? I believe in calling it like it is; I don't think so. But why do so many black women, feeling this way? From my point of view, you date and love the people in your enviroment. So if we are to believe, that we are crazy, wouldn't our women be that too? I mean, if we are so bad for each other, that we can't even talk about it a subject, then who's crazier? The men, The women? For the most part, I meet a lot of women who have been hurt in some way or another, by men, other then ME. I listen, becaues you can't judge a book by it's cover. Most of the time, it's so lop sided, what happen, it's just too hard to believe, that only one person is causing the problem. I have talk to other men, who feel the same way. They are tired of hearing about problems, yet not allowed to discuss them, without being attack. Be sure this is not an attack on the crazys of either sex. But a reflection, on why, we can't talk about our problems without ARGUEING. It solves nothing. I would love to hear answers from the men of this board other then me, since I seem to be an *emotional lightenng rod* . So that we can have a balanced conversation, from all walks of *Male life*. How do you feel and if you can, ELABORATE our/your POINT OF VIEW. PEACE. I will be back Sunday night to discuss with anybody in The gentlemen's Club, there experiences, they shared. Enjoy your weekend.
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Post by pelicanguy on Dec 10, 2006 21:54:34 GMT -5
Like I said earlier, it's all about them for many women. These women also have this "you're either with us or you're against us" mentality. Many women believe they or their sex period can do no wrong whatsoever; that whatever problems they endure with the men they are with, it's always the man's fault, according to these women.
Even if they allow you to get your point across and you provide a compelling point of view - including supporting facts, a lot of women will try to flip the script and still find something wrong with your opinion and make you look bad.
It's pretty hilarious if you ask me. If anything, they're the ones looking crazy.
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Post by dolphinfan on Dec 11, 2006 21:19:48 GMT -5
Like I said earlier, it's all about them for many women. These women also have this "you're either with us or you're against us" mentality. Many women believe they or their sex period can do no wrong whatsoever; that whatever problems they endure with the men they are with, it's always the man's fault, according to these women. Even if they allow you to get your point across and you provide a compelling point of view - including supporting facts, a lot of women will try to flip the script and still find something wrong with your opinion and make you look bad. It's pretty hilarious if you ask me. If anything, they're the ones looking crazy. Aman BROTHER Aman, It seems no matter how hard you try, Your still an IDIOT, with a penis. I guess if we go back to just ignoring them. Things will go back to normal, at lease for us.
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