Post by jazzlover on Jul 25, 2006 12:32:40 GMT -5
Lust is commonly misunderstood and the usage of the word is usually abused. Lust does not equal sex. Lust is not having sex. Lust is not even having more sex. Lust is coveting what you are not supposed to possess - including the excesses, taking what belongs to others, indulging in what is not yours. It is not how much or how little that one is involved with for it depends on the grace and capacity of each individual, which differs one from another. Lust is wallowing in that which is not yours or in excesses that are beyond your ability and grace to handle, and it may just be about anything, including power, money, sex, territory, and even ministry, knowledge and seemingly casual relationships, love and authority over another’s life. So it is required of a man to know himself, to know what is his and what is not and to know the will of God and his position in all matters of his life and relationships around him. And these he will not know until he knows his God.
Thus, whether you are a man or a woman, even secretly desiring for or fantasizing (whether sexually or not) after another woman or man, that by the scriptures you know you are not supposed to possess, is already an unfaithful act of adultery in the heart. This may even be in any form of representations such as things, pictures or words. That's why indulging in pornography, celebrity worship and even admiration of unrighteous personalities in any form are lustful. And having such desires over things that one is not supposed to possess is covetousness and theft in the heart. On the other hand, possessing things in your heart that you are supposed to have but not yet have, is faith. Love does not covet (envy - 1Cor 13:4), but love enlarges in the promises of God for oneself.
The experience of David is a classic example to define what is lust and what is not. The David's sin of adultery was not that of possessing more wives (1Sam 5:12,13) but that of taking another man's wife. 2 Sam 12:8-9, 'I gave you your master's house and your master's wives into your keeping, and gave you the house of Israel and Judah. And if that had been too little, I also would have given you much more! 'Why have you despised the commandment of the LORD, to do evil in His sight? You have killed Uriah the Hittite with the sword; you have taken his wife to be your wife, and have killed him with the sword of the people of Ammon. (NKJ)