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Post by Blaque on Jun 12, 2006 13:21:46 GMT -5
One new survey says that teen girls aren’t having sex because they want to, it’s because they feel like they have to. Almost half of the girls in the study say they’ve been pressured into it, especially when drinking was involved, or when they thought their boyfriend would be disappointed if they didn’t. That sounds like a bunch of BS to me. What do you think? Are guys predators when it comes to sex…or are young girls just making excuses?
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jazzlover
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Post by jazzlover on Jun 12, 2006 13:46:34 GMT -5
I think young girls and boys are victims of peer pressure and a pornographic society, many do to be loved and accepted! I really feel sorry for kids growing up today, even the teachers are preying on them!
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Post by cinnaroll32 on Jun 12, 2006 13:49:04 GMT -5
I do feel it is a problem of peer pressure and that kids wanting to be part of the in crowd and are not to sure of the end results.
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Post by blackviking on Jun 12, 2006 14:03:06 GMT -5
What? Teenage girls manipulate? The very idea!
I think this whole "I felt pressured" argument is really weak. True, they are probably not enjoying it... since their partners don't have the first clue what they are doing yet. But, make no mistake... they are having sex for their reasons. They are lying about their level of control for the same reasons.
This is about the age that women learn how to use sex to control men. They don't really start to curb this behavior until their mid-twenties (if ever). That's when they strart meeting men that have a modicum of self control themselves.
Basically, my point is this... unless they were raped, they were "in control" the entire time.
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jazzlover
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Post by jazzlover on Jun 12, 2006 14:08:17 GMT -5
Any man would seek sex from a teen ager should have his ass whipped for real though, many of these young girl fall for college aged guys that impress them with a little money and a car!
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Post by Blaque on Jun 12, 2006 14:22:19 GMT -5
I tend to agree with Viking. Young girls have sex because they want to. Maybe they feel guilty afterwards and want to use the excuse that they were pressured. But unless it is truly a case of rape, these young girls are doing what they want to do.
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Post by dolphinfan on Jun 12, 2006 19:40:44 GMT -5
What? Teenage girls manipulate? The very idea! I think this whole "I felt pressured" argument is really weak. True, they are probably not enjoying it... since their partners don't have the first clue what they are doing yet. But, make no mistake... they are having sex for their reasons. They are lying about their level of control for the same reasons. This is about the age that women learn how to use sex to control men. They don't really start to curb this behavior until their mid-twenties (if ever). That's when they strart meeting men that have a modicum of self control themselves. Basically, my point is this... unless they were raped, they were "in control" the entire time. I'm with you!!! Women get a by, when it comes to any sex issues. They are either NIEVE, as hell. or will not SHARE the Blame!!! for problems!!!
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Post by pelicanguy on Jun 12, 2006 20:55:28 GMT -5
We all been through that stage and most of us came out fine. This is something that will be rehashed every year. People will have sex when they want to have sex.
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Post by Blaque on Jun 13, 2006 6:48:09 GMT -5
I agree B. I don't really see the point in all of these surveys. Young people are having sex. Tell us something we don't know.
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