sweetpie
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Post by sweetpie on Jun 30, 2006 22:05:34 GMT -5
"Black women and other women is... Black women take us for granted. Many of them don't realize how badly other women want us, and how many Brothas just naturally go where they are wanted. My experience is that it takes a lot more than being straight, having a job, and staying out of prison, to turn a Sister's head."
It seems to be the consensus that sistas do not appreciate the brotha which is one of his reasonings for his turn "outside".
Black women have ALWAYS wanted a black man and will always love a black man and she loves him not because he is EXOTIC but because he is like her. He supposed to be hers as her to him.
I've had jacked up crap said to me, done to me, made fun of me talked about my voice by who? Brothas. I did not penalize the rest due to the stupidity of a few. It never once occurred to me to tell them (brothas) "I just like looking at other meat, deal with it." That was not my excuse for changing up the plan to settle down with whom I thought would be the man the Lord would send me.
I hear the same things year after year about how the sista is hard to get along with. All races have the same problem. When you raise someone over us it is not a good feeling. There is not another race at odds with one another as the black man and woman and it shouldn't be like that but truthfully it is...
I am not trying to tell you how to feel but you guys just don't know how that makes a sista feel. It is not a comforting feeling when you hear a brotha come up with something negative about a sista.
Sistas have to deal with the many dynamics that a brotha can bring to a relationship also, which probably birthed the BBW, bitter black woman. Now she don't get bitter biting on a lemon on her own.
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Post by Sista Chi on Jun 30, 2006 23:22:35 GMT -5
I think they are making excuses.
They were rejected and they did not know how to handle that. So they go on to another race and then say, hey, look! You didn't want me, so there! nanananana!
It's like a lil' kid that is singing the 'woe is me' you didn't want me, instead of realizing maybe those particular Black women just wasn't for him, and keep looking for one or fifty that do.
When you start waving a person's race and culture that's different from mine and yours like it's better, you have insulted your momma, aunt, grandmother, that mostly likely have married and had a baby by a Black man) yourself, as well as me that didn't do anything to you. You also disrespect that woman because you reduce her down to just her 'race', the only reason you even give her the time of day. And stereotyping based on your few interactions with Black women is flat out wrong. You do not KNOW most Black women. It's almost like these men that date other races trade in what they desire in a Black woman, for what is perceived as a Gold Mine based on a stereotypical image of the 'White/ Hispanice' image.
These woman still have expectations of you. Funny, how these men or more willing because what they perceive they are getting that's different from what they have experienced with 'MOST' Black women expect.
Maybe it's time to do some self-reflection..if all these Black women are behaving this way, could it be something you are doing wrong? Are you TRULY up to parr? Change your attitude, the type of Black women you step to will change.
But this seems to me of a sensitivity nature and the first thing men that think like that do is go on the defensive, instead of seeing things the way it's supposed to be seen.
Just not interested..no harm, no foul. There are others that are, go find them.
Date another race because you like WHO they are, not because they are not Black.
GREAT Black women are not chasing away GREAT Black guys away..
Anything worth having is never easy.
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sweetpie
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Post by sweetpie on Jul 1, 2006 5:06:57 GMT -5
Girl tell it, that's what I'm sayin'.
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Post by dolphinfan on Jul 1, 2006 6:28:42 GMT -5
"Black women and other women is... Black women take us for granted. Many of them don't realize how badly other women want us, and how many Brothas just naturally go where they are wanted. My experience is that it takes a lot more than being straight, having a job, and staying out of prison, to turn a Sister's head."It seems to be the consensus that sistas do not appreciate the brotha which is one of his reasonings for his turn "outside". Black women have ALWAYS wanted a black man and will always love a black man and she loves him not because he is EXOTIC but because he is like her. He supposed to be hers as her to him. I've had jacked up crap said to me, done to me, made fun of me talked about my voice by who? Brothas. I did not penalize the rest due to the stupidity of a few. It never once occurred to me to tell them (brothas) "I just like looking at other meat, deal with it." That was not my excuse for changing up the plan to settle down with whom I thought would be the man the Lord would send me. I hear the same things year after year about how the sista is hard to get along with. All races have the same problem. When you raise someone over us it is not a good feeling. There is not another race at odds with one another as the black man and woman and it shouldn't be like that but truthfully it is... I am not trying to tell you how to feel but you guys just don't know how that makes a sista feel. It is not a comforting feeling when you hear a brotha come up with something negative about a sista. Sistas have to deal with the many dynamics that a brotha can bring to a relationship also, which probably birthed the BBW, bitter black woman. Now she don't get bitter biting on a lemon on her own. WELL, WELL WELL, back from VACATION, and already starten TROUBLE!!!. As a Black man who has crossed the TRACKS, i feel it my Job!! to speak First!!. I have never Turned my back, on black women and NEVER will. What black women DO realize is( notice i said DO!!!). Once you dated the underbelly of Black society!!!!!!< it's hard to give up!!!. We have the same problem with FAST WOMEN,(I'm I boring you YET!). Black men, NEVER get appreciated, until you are either dead!!!!!!!! about to die, or going broke!!! It's always after the fact!!!. OOOH he was a good man, why did he have to die soo young!!!!!!!!. I for one get tired of the lame excuse used by black women, to jump on Black mens backs!!. Why can't you just ADMIT, you have Different taste!!, in men. We would understand better!! The mistake you make ,are called UNFORTUNATE circumstances. When we make em, it's called BEING A DUMB AZZ!!......... and hey, if the shoe fits, were it. Black women then fall into the church!!!, fall fore Jesus, get used by the church, and even become good spirited people, or crazy azz Bs. Most become the LATTER, thinking they are the first. I have met both!!! most of the women who have true peace of mind that comes from the spirit!!! are a joy to be around!!!. the others, you wish never came around. I have dated many women, mostly black, and Hispanic, and a couple white, in all but a few cases, none were in my opinion, marriage material, not because of race, but because of the ATTITUDE, that comes with being a free thinking person, so confident in your abilities, that you forget it takes two, to make a couple, not one, and only your daddy and uncles and brothers, can TRULY, love you UNCONDITIONALLY and gawd too. Other men have to learn this!! and this is were women in my opinion go wrong, it ain't about who, or whom your sex-en, it about the total Package!!! of the person!!!!. Men get this, BLACK MEN KNOW THIS, and i don't Care what Black Viking said about a poll in another Post, Black women who are ABLE, are Jumping, ship faster then Black-men, we may sleep more with other races!, but black women are making babies and getting married!! to Spanish men quicker the you can say VIVA La rastaAAH or whatever. Because these women, who are teachers, police women, lawyers, judges, you name it, get out in the world, they are making the same choices that Black-men get criticized about. They just don't Bragg about how many men they BAGGED, like men do of women!!. And this brings me back to CHOICES and what you REALLY like in a MATE!!!. I have said this on many post and many boards, and this can go for either sex!! just because you are Intelligent, have a nice JOB, go to church, maybe even cute, doesn't mean you are the greatest husband material, of wife material. It still take TWO people with Similar PLANS!! and beliefs systems to truly, in my opinion start a healthy relationship!!!, and that still doesn't EXCLUDE, outside factors!!. I have dated some women, who my friends SAID, and I quote, How did you PULL that!, and i tell them there same thing ever time, I said Hi, she spoke back, we had a CONVERSATION, exchanged Numbers, and wallah. Notice I said Conversation, NOT One ups-man,or women ship!! a simple conversation!!! not about GAWD, Job, or politics, and we found we had something in common, at least enough, to look it up!!!. Most of us can't get past the One games man/woman ship!!, before we drop the person, for not doing what we wanted them to DO!!. I'm an average looking black man, who has dated and sexed, many very beautiful black and Latino women, and yes a couple of whites. But they were more attracted to what I had to OFFER , then me being, this stud, which i don't feel like, but if it works, it works. I think if we both would just listen, instead of telling each other ,what the other would like. i think we BOTH would Out grow some of the CHILDISH things we do to EACH other!!!. As for the OPINION that both sides have of each other, i personally believe , that both sides are telling the truth, it's just neither side is LISTENING, to the others complaint!! and worst are not, at least making positive attempts, at changing DATING PRACTICES!!!!!! which to me is the number one REASON,BLACK WOMEN are screwing UP!!!, SOOO bad,............you don't hear black-men, complaining as MUCH.........
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Post by blackviking on Jul 1, 2006 6:59:23 GMT -5
"Black women and other women is... Black women take us for granted. Many of them don't realize how badly other women want us, and how many Brothas just naturally go where they are wanted. My experience is that it takes a lot more than being straight, having a job, and staying out of prison, to turn a Sister's head."It seems to be the consensus that sistas do not appreciate the brotha which is one of his reasonings for his turn "outside". Black women have ALWAYS wanted a black man and will always love a black man and she loves him not because he is EXOTIC but because he is like her. He supposed to be hers as her to him. I've had jacked up crap said to me, done to me, made fun of me talked about my voice by who? Brothas. I did not penalize the rest due to the stupidity of a few. It never once occurred to me to tell them (brothas) "I just like looking at other meat, deal with it." That was not my excuse for changing up the plan to settle down with whom I thought would be the man the Lord would send me. I hear the same things year after year about how the sista is hard to get along with. All races have the same problem. When you raise someone over us it is not a good feeling. There is not another race at odds with one another as the black man and woman and it shouldn't be like that but truthfully it is... I am not trying to tell you how to feel but you guys just don't know how that makes a sista feel. It is not a comforting feeling when you hear a brotha come up with something negative about a sista. Sistas have to deal with the many dynamics that a brotha can bring to a relationship also, which probably birthed the BBW, bitter black woman. Now she don't get bitter biting on a lemon on her own. WELL, WELL WELL, back from VACATION, and already starten TROUBLE!!!. As a Black man who has crossed the TRACKS, i feel it my Job!! to speak First!!. I have never Turned my back, on black women and NEVER will. What black women DO realize is( notice i said DO!!!). Once you dated the underbelly of Black society!!!!!!< it's hard to give up!!!. We have the same problem with FAST WOMEN,(I'm I boring you YET!). Black men, NEVER get appreciated, until you are either dead!!!!!!!! about to die, or going broke!!! It's always after the fact!!!. OOOH he was a good man, why did he have to die soo young!!!!!!!!. I for one get tired of the lame excuse used by black women, to jump on Black mens backs!!. Why can't you just ADMIT, you have Different taste!!, in men. We would understand better!! The mistake you make ,are called UNFORTUNATE circumstances. When we make em, it's called BEING A DUMB AZZ!!......... and hey, if the shoe fits, were it. Black women then fall into the church!!!, fall fore Jesus, get used by the church, and even become good spirited people, or crazy azz Bs. Most become the LATTER, thinking they are the first. I have met both!!! most of the women who have true peace of mind that comes from the spirit!!! are a joy to be around!!!. the others, you wish never came around. I have dated many women, mostly black, and Hispanic, and a couple white, in all but a few cases, none were in my opinion, marriage material, not because of race, but because of the ATTITUDE, that comes with being a free thinking person, so confident in your abilities, that you forget it takes two, to make a couple, not one, and only your daddy and uncles and brothers, can TRULY, love you UNCONDITIONALLY and gawd too. Other men have to learn this!! and this is were women in my opinion go wrong, it ain't about who, or whom your sex-en, it about the total Package!!! of the person!!!!. Men get this, BLACK MEN KNOW THIS, and i don't Care what Black Viking said about a poll in another Post, Black women who are ABLE, are Jumping, ship faster then Black-men, we may sleep more with other races!, but black women are making babies and getting married!! to Spanish men quicker the you can say VIVA La rastaAAH or whatever. Because these women, who are teachers, police women, lawyers, judges, you name it, get out in the world, they are making the same choices that Black-men get criticized about. They just don't Bragg about how many men they BAGGED, like men do of women!!. And this brings me back to CHOICES and what you REALLY like in a MATE!!!. I have said this on many post and many boards, and this can go for either sex!! just because you are Intelligent, have a nice JOB, go to church, maybe even cute, doesn't mean you are the greatest husband material, of wife material. It still take TWO people with Similar PLANS!! and beliefs systems to truly, in my opinion start a healthy relationship!!!, and that still doesn't EXCLUDE, outside factors!!. I have dated some women, who my friends SAID, and I quote, How did you PULL that!, and i tell them there same thing ever time, I said Hi, she spoke back, we had a CONVERSATION, exchanged Numbers, and wallah. Notice I said Conversation, NOT One ups-man,or women ship!! a simple conversation!!! not about GAWD, Job, or politics, and we found we had something in common, at least enough, to look it up!!!. Most of us can't get past the One games man/woman ship!!, before we drop the person, for not doing what we wanted them to DO!!. I'm an average looking black man, who has dated and sexed, many very beautiful black and Latino women, and yes a couple of whites. But they were more attracted to what I had to OFFER , then me being, this stud, which i don't feel like, but if it works, it works. I think if we both would just listen, instead of telling each other ,what the other would like. i think we BOTH would Out grow some of the CHILDISH things we do to EACH other!!!. As for the OPINION that both sides have of each other, i personally believe , that both sides are telling the truth, it's just neither side is LISTENING, to the others complaint!! and worst are not, at least making positive attempts, at changing DATING PRACTICES!!!!!! which to me is the number one REASON,BLACK WOMEN are screwing UP!!!, SOOO bad,............you don't hear black-men, complaining as MUCH......... Co-signing. I think they are making excuses. They were rejected and they did not know how to handle that. So they go on to another race and then say, hey, look! You didn't want me, so there! nanananana! That's comical. No one has to make any excuses for why they date who they date... period. No one on the thread quoted did anything close to what you wrote here. Can we say projection??? It's probably because what they are getting from MOST Black women is nothing. Good question. Here's another one... If the man is doing something wrong, if he's not on parr... why do you care who he's dating? If the Sisters don't want him, then what gives? Sure... no harm, no foul. Until the next woman who is interested is not Black. Then it's World War III. Ok... this myth has got to go. There are very, very, few Black men who will not date Black women. I've found them to be so few and far between that I can't fathom how this myth got started. Yes they are... they just don't know it. I agree.
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Post by dolphinfan on Jul 1, 2006 7:11:30 GMT -5
SISTA CHI!!! Such sophisticated hate , I,m Impress..........NOT !! When I feel forced to date outside the race, it's not because, I can't relate, or must put sistas down, to feel better about myself!!, it's about the AVAILABILITY of women, that I like. Not what you think I should like!!! . I'm not dating the local crack head, because she has potential in your EYES, or how about, crazy azz preacher women ,because after twenty five years of raising hell, she decided to retired, and now works for GAWD, as a HELL RAISER for HIM Culture has nothing to do with it Either, Ninety percent of the time, it's simply because I'm Horny!!!, and the person I'm with is TOO!!!. Now I can be with some MARRIED SISTAS.......... But then I would be called all kinds of names, but I find a single women, who just happen to be NOT BLACK, I'm an azz hole again, go figure ,THAT HATE!!. A pleezee stop blaming BLACK-men for not finding You, because the only three places you go, are to CHURCH, WORK, and STRAIGHT HOME!!, The three place, White society doesn't want us!!!. because it might STABILIZE us!!! I think some women need to reflect, on whats really bothering THEM, not Black men. The reason I'm saying this is because it's always centers around the hate. Why black women can't figure out, why they can't find a good black man with-out having that,* SETTLING FOR LESS FEELING*, BOGGLES MY, AND OTHER BLACK MENS MINDS . You see, from a black man PERSPECTIVE!! most of you, not all, have be USED UP!! By the men you spent the last decade with, and the EMOTIONS, that pissed ya ll off, has been placed on the heads of all adult BLACK-men!!! Ya ll can get together and Exchange Hate secrets, men don't do this, and quite frankly, I'm glad . We prefer the Hunt, for better Opportunities, even if it leads up to other neighborhoods!!!, not dwell on the Negative thoughts, ya ll seem to share so well. Again, I love Black women, But I ain't waiting anymore. If she shows up ,find, if not Find, and thats not HATE, it's the REALITY, that, our social problems, are a lot deeper the BLACK AND WHITE!!! oops, I'm not suppose to be that smart, I digress.oops, I shouldn't be using words like that, I might sound too!!!! WHITE!!!
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Post by dolphinfan on Jul 1, 2006 7:15:37 GMT -5
WELL, WELL WELL, back from VACATION, and already starten TROUBLE!!!. As a Black man who has crossed the TRACKS, i feel it my Job!! to speak First!!. I have never Turned my back, on black women and NEVER will. What black women DO realize is( notice i said DO!!!). Once you dated the underbelly of Black society!!!!!!< it's hard to give up!!!. We have the same problem with FAST WOMEN,(I'm I boring you YET!). Black men, NEVER get appreciated, until you are either dead!!!!!!!! about to die, or going broke!!! It's always after the fact!!!. OOOH he was a good man, why did he have to die soo young!!!!!!!!. I for one get tired of the lame excuse used by black women, to jump on Black mens backs!!. Why can't you just ADMIT, you have Different taste!!, in men. We would understand better!! The mistake you make ,are called UNFORTUNATE circumstances. When we make em, it's called BEING A DUMB AZZ!!......... and hey, if the shoe fits, were it. Black women then fall into the church!!!, fall fore Jesus, get used by the church, and even become good spirited people, or crazy azz Bs. Most become the LATTER, thinking they are the first. I have met both!!! most of the women who have true peace of mind that comes from the spirit!!! are a joy to be around!!!. the others, you wish never came around. I have dated many women, mostly black, and Hispanic, and a couple white, in all but a few cases, none were in my opinion, marriage material, not because of race, but because of the ATTITUDE, that comes with being a free thinking person, so confident in your abilities, that you forget it takes two, to make a couple, not one, and only your daddy and uncles and brothers, can TRULY, love you UNCONDITIONALLY and gawd too. Other men have to learn this!! and this is were women in my opinion go wrong, it ain't about who, or whom your sex-en, it about the total Package!!! of the person!!!!. Men get this, BLACK MEN KNOW THIS, and i don't Care what Black Viking said about a poll in another Post, Black women who are ABLE, are Jumping, ship faster then Black-men, we may sleep more with other races!, but black women are making babies and getting married!! to Spanish men quicker the you can say VIVA La rastaAAH or whatever. Because these women, who are teachers, police women, lawyers, judges, you name it, get out in the world, they are making the same choices that Black-men get criticized about. They just don't Bragg about how many men they BAGGED, like men do of women!!. And this brings me back to CHOICES and what you REALLY like in a MATE!!!. I have said this on many post and many boards, and this can go for either sex!! just because you are Intelligent, have a nice JOB, go to church, maybe even cute, doesn't mean you are the greatest husband material, of wife material. It still take TWO people with Similar PLANS!! and beliefs systems to truly, in my opinion start a healthy relationship!!!, and that still doesn't EXCLUDE, outside factors!!. I have dated some women, who my friends SAID, and I quote, How did you PULL that!, and i tell them there same thing ever time, I said Hi, she spoke back, we had a CONVERSATION, exchanged Numbers, and wallah. Notice I said Conversation, NOT One ups-man,or women ship!! a simple conversation!!! not about GAWD, Job, or politics, and we found we had something in common, at least enough, to look it up!!!. Most of us can't get past the One games man/woman ship!!, before we drop the person, for not doing what we wanted them to DO!!. I'm an average looking black man, who has dated and sexed, many very beautiful black and Latino women, and yes a couple of whites. But they were more attracted to what I had to OFFER , then me being, this stud, which i don't feel like, but if it works, it works. I think if we both would just listen, instead of telling each other ,what the other would like. i think we BOTH would Out grow some of the CHILDISH things we do to EACH other!!!. As for the OPINION that both sides have of each other, i personally believe , that both sides are telling the truth, it's just neither side is LISTENING, to the others complaint!! and worst are not, at least making positive attempts, at changing DATING PRACTICES!!!!!! which to me is the number one REASON,BLACK WOMEN are screwing UP!!!, SOOO bad,............you don't hear black-men, complaining as MUCH......... Co-signing. That's comical. No one has to make any excuses for why they date who they date... period. No one on the thread quoted did anything close to what you wrote here. Can we say projection??? It's probably because what they are getting from MOST Black women is nothing. Good question. Here's another one... If the man is doing something wrong, if he's not on parr... why do you care who he's dating? If the Sisters don't want him, then what gives? Sure... no harm, no foul. Until the next woman who is interested is not Black. Then it's World War III. Ok... this myth has got to go. There are very, very, few Black men who will not date Black women. I've found them to be so few and far between that I can't fathom how this myth got started. Yes they are... they just don't know it. I agree. if they want to play the game so much, THEY better start learning the rules
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Post by pelicanguy on Jul 1, 2006 10:21:12 GMT -5
Dolphinman and BV: COSIGNING WITH BOTH OF YA!
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Post by pelicanguy on Jul 1, 2006 10:24:12 GMT -5
This has got to be the biggest piece of fracka-nackle-bull I have ever read. Some sisters are so full of themselves they don't see a good brother if he were to come up and
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Post by Sista Chi on Jul 1, 2006 11:22:13 GMT -5
A crying shame.
Have a good day, Brothas.
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Post by dolphinfan on Jul 1, 2006 13:20:08 GMT -5
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Post by dolphinfan on Jul 1, 2006 13:26:07 GMT -5
A crying shame. Have a good day, Brothas. If you can't stand the HEAT, GIT DA HELL OUT OF THE KITCHEN NOW...... another subject won ;D But!!! lost on BLACK SOCIETY!!! HAVE A NICE DAY, MY CHI SISTA
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Post by jazzlover on Jul 1, 2006 14:26:42 GMT -5
Maybe I view this topic differently because I was in the military, but my experience has been that ALL women want a black man! When I was in England I went to the bowling alley on base just to eat a burger and I was treated like a rock star, I had 3 white girl sit at my table and start talking, that is not the norm in America, but for a kid that was a geek in high school that couldn't BUY a date, that was pretty amazing, fortunately for me my relationship with Christ keeps me from screwing every girl that comes on to me, I however LOVE black women and sexually no other woman does it for me like a sister, when I mention Hispanic women I consider them sisters too, wheter you realize it or not slaves were in Puerto Rico, Haiti, and Cuba so just because they speak Spanish they have African in them too!
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Post by dolphinfan on Jul 1, 2006 14:45:24 GMT -5
Maybe I view this topic differently because I was in the military, but my experience has been that ALL women want a black man! When I was in England I went to the bowling alley on base just to eat a burger and I was treated like a rock star, I had 3 white girl sit at my table and start talking, that is not the norm in America, but for a kid that was a geek in high school that couldn't BUY a date, that was pretty amazing, fortunately for me my relationship with Christ keeps me from screwing every girl that comes on to me, I however LOVE black women and sexually no other woman does it for me like a sister, when I mention Hispanic women I consider them sisters too, wheter you realize it or not slaves were in Puerto Rico, Haiti, and Cuba so just because they speak Spanish they have African in them too! THEY may give you some points, but, but after the butt whipping, they took today , i think they will toss you to the side too!!
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Post by sweetpie on Jul 1, 2006 17:29:46 GMT -5
Okay Dolphin you have had your so-called fun... I want to have clean discussion about this... I just want to know why...
Now just because you come over here and responded and put exclamation marks and smilies doesn't mean you squashed anything. I have read all of the points in the posts and made note of the but the female and male realities remain. My original point in the post was to give a true feeling from a woman that has made mistakes, that has learned that the door does swing both ways but in reality any ole pair of pants don't nor won't do. If the other race of women find you guys irresistable fine, well and good. It is not enough to say that dude didn't choose me so now I have sour grapes. My point is that no matter what race man that I am with I will not put down my brotha. Now if I want to limit myself to you that is what choose to do. But letting other women THINK that they have the upper hand over me just cuz she got you is crap. Let me tell you this, they feel like they can walk up to us and say anything trying to give the illusion that they are somehow better because she is with you.
Now you guys act like I should be sorry for feeling for my own after rejection from you and I call you my own cuz I choose to and as a race we should have something to be proud of. We are a race that should care a little more about each other instead of pointing out the bad all of the time. I would not say the things I say if I hadn't seen them for myself. Look, I would give someone the time of day if they have shown me that I was worth talking to also. Don't act like that it doesn't happen to sistas.
I realize that all men are NOT alike as you say all women are. The basic parts are the same. Depends upon who you are dealing with. Men are bugged by every skirt that passes them by, but don't they have to learn how to deal with it? No matter how pretty girlfriend or wife is it ain't enough unless you don't put yourself in the situation of wrongdoing. Don't come up in here talking like sistas set up their own down fall. Sometimes we don't know to respond when a sistuation has crept up. But you guys had to have come full circle in order to know what you know about a woman. The stories about women in their teenage years and early twenties according to you are supposed to have the wisdom that experience brings...NOT. Now I know you didn't sit back and boo hoo when the sistas supposedly snubbed you. We all had a growing process and decisions to make. But don't put me down cuz I don't want to cross the tracks to spite of a brotha cuz chickiepoo smiled at me. I just don't understand why a brotha doesn't feel a kinship with his own. It is like you don't want to put the time in to find her, instead you want to hold onto when sistagirl saw right through you because you thought of yourself as okie doke, that is not right. You have learned, finding the right sista can be a treasure also.
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