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Post by dolphinfan on Jul 1, 2006 8:17:31 GMT -5
To be everything to everybody but themselves!!!. I do talk to a lot of women in general, and i do listen. and to me they are trying to hard to please everybody, and I do mean everybody. THEN, get this, expects the same BACK. Now if I had too, I would work two jobs, but thats , the exception, not the rule, and I see a lot of women working themselves to death, and for what!!!!? And not at one time, do they ever try to help themselves ,except of course, on a get back, with a man. Thats stupid enough to let her. I never see them actually, DO anything to repair themselves, they always set themselves up to wait, WHY, Do so many women work so hard, and for nothing in return? or expect something, later down the line. I live for now, and try to set up for the future, most men do this when able, not most women. Why is this? And Please don't give me GOSPEL QUOTES!! I'M A MAN, WHO wants to hear from YOU!! Not GAWD!!
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Post by Blaque on Jul 1, 2006 18:18:09 GMT -5
To be everything to everybody but themselves!!!. I do talk to a lot of women in general, and i do listen. and to me they are trying to hard to please everybody, and I do mean everybody. THEN, get this, expects the same BACK. Now if I had too, I would work two jobs, but thats , the exception, not the rule, and I see a lot of women working themselves to death, and for what!!!!? And not at one time, do they ever try to help themselves ,except of course, on a get back, with a man. Thats stupid enough to let her. I never see them actually, DO anything to repair themselves, they always set themselves up to wait, WHY, Do so many women work so hard, and for nothing in return? or expect something, later down the line. I live for now, and try to set up for the future, most men do this when able, not most women. Why is this? And Please don't give me GOSPEL QUOTES!! I'M A MAN, WHO wants to hear from YOU!! Not GAWD!! Dolphinfan, darling, women do what they have to do. In some cases women have to work full time (and maybe even a 2nd part time job), then they have the responsibility of being a mother, sometimes they have to also take care of one or more parents, and then find time for a social life. So yes, if a woman works hard she doesn't want a slacker. I work hard and have a busy life and could never date a man who didn't have the same work ethics. And as far as "repairing themselves" I'm not sure I know what you mean by that but when a woman wakes up in the morning and doesn't stop moving mentally or physically until the kids are in bed and the house is clean, she may not have a whole lot of time for self-reflection. It's hard being a woman because sometimes you do have to be everything to everyone. That's not a crime, that's called survival.
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Post by dolphinfan on Jul 2, 2006 7:09:35 GMT -5
To be everything to everybody but themselves!!!. I do talk to a lot of women in general, and i do listen. and to me they are trying to hard to please everybody, and I do mean everybody. THEN, get this, expects the same BACK. Now if I had too, I would work two jobs, but thats , the exception, not the rule, and I see a lot of women working themselves to death, and for what!!!!? And not at one time, do they ever try to help themselves ,except of course, on a get back, with a man. Thats stupid enough to let her. I never see them actually, DO anything to repair themselves, they always set themselves up to wait, WHY, Do so many women work so hard, and for nothing in return? or expect something, later down the line. I live for now, and try to set up for the future, most men do this when able, not most women. Why is this? And Please don't give me GOSPEL QUOTES!! I'M A MAN, WHO wants to hear from YOU!! Not GAWD!! Dolphinfan, darling, women do what they have to do. In some cases women have to work full time (and maybe even a 2nd part time job), then they have the responsibility of being a mother, sometimes they have to also take care of one or more parents, and then find time for a social life. So yes, if a woman works hard she doesn't want a slacker. I work hard and have a busy life and could never date a man who didn't have the same work ethics. And as far as "repairing themselves" I'm not sure I know what you mean by that but when a woman wakes up in the morning and doesn't stop moving mentally or physically until the kids are in bed and the house is clean, she may not have a whole lot of time for self-reflection. It's hard being a woman because sometimes you do have to be everything to everyone. That's not a crime, that's called survival. You miss my point, msblaque. I'm talking bout women who push people , for the sake of pushing people and themselve for no apparent reason. If you are doing something for a MORAL reason, I have no beef with you, at all,. This is about women who push, and push, and for what!!. My second part; About repairing themselves, is about rejection. I have never seen a women do anything, but dawg out, whom-ever hurt her, or jump into the church and become worst then before( to get along with). I wanted to hear from a women, her point of view. And by the way, if I had to work four jobs............ I do it for you!!
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Post by Blaque on Jul 2, 2006 7:23:59 GMT -5
And I would treat you like a King.
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Post by dolphinfan on Jul 2, 2006 8:17:52 GMT -5
And I would treat you like a King. SNIFF, SNIFF , this is some type of trickeration,...ain't it
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Post by Blaque on Jul 2, 2006 10:22:43 GMT -5
Not at all.
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Sista Chi
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There's No One Like Her
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Post by Sista Chi on Jul 2, 2006 16:51:16 GMT -5
Most of us are rocks to many others. And that's just the way it is. But it's all about striking that balance. If you don't...it will kill you faster than any cigarette, food, alcohol, etc. can.
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Post by dolphinfan on Jul 2, 2006 17:25:39 GMT -5
Most of us are rocks to many others. And that's just the way it is. But it's all about striking that balance. If you don't...it will kill you faster than any cigarette, food, alcohol, etc. can. Well said..........well said!!!
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sweetpie
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Post by sweetpie on Jul 5, 2006 22:26:28 GMT -5
Women are the managers, the force that keeps things going. No matter what a woman does outside of the home there is always more when she gets there. A woman's role is essential. If she doesn't do what is needed for her family it will stop running like clockwork. Much of the time a woman has no choice but to carry out her responsibility and many times she falls back and is left with no one to lift her up. It is not just about griping and moaning about no one being there. It is natural to expect something back from the ones she has served for so long. That role is just as important if not more than the leader. If the leader is not there to hold everyone together and guide the entire family will most definitely fail.
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