Post by dolphinfan on Jul 2, 2006 8:15:51 GMT -5
How many men, have been hurt, by a lyin stinkin, cheatin women!!!
I have, and in the long run, it's was the Best, thing to ever happen. Be sure, at the time, I was hurt like hell. But I got over it. It lingered for a while that *women could do to me, what i did to them*(yes ladys, i'm a reformed cheater). Now I just do the CREEPIN . (it pays to have a sense of humor)
Fellaz, the reason I bring this up. Is because women need to know from DIFFERENT men, what WE went through.
I hear all the time about trust issues, baby daddy drama. I want theM to hear from US, OUR SIDE!!!!!!!!!, of HURT. And what we do to hide this PAIN. Of being cheated on, BY THOSE LYIN STINKIN. DIRTY, FLITHY, LYIN WOMEN (SORRY LADYS, I HAD TO VENT)< I FELL MUCH BETTER NOW.
For me, it was an eye opener!! we were suppositly in love, and were thinking of marriage. When i met her, she had just broken up, we her ex man, we dated for about a year!!, never had a clue she was cheating, matter of fact, I didn't even know him. So if i was commming home, and he had just left my place, unless i saw him, comming out my door. I just thought he was a passer by!!. One of my boys who was creepin at the time told me, he said this brother was in my house, when i was at work!!(young men are you listening). i could believe it becaise sex was the same, and we were not argueing, about dumb stuff. it wasn't until the second time ,my boy seen him and confronted him(moment of slience for my boy !!!) That I took action. First I did love her, or at least believed I did. so we talk and at first she denied eveything, then I said what about the confrontation, she started crying, and after a few hours, of heated .....Spoken word, she admitted to cheatting with him, first blaming me from her cheating (i worked long hours(military), and you just can't call out sick!!. Anyway, they had gotten as far as talking about getting back together!!!, but she had decided against it. but i guess the sex was soo good, why cut it out. Any way believe it or not, i never met the guy!!!. We dated about another three months, and I had, had enough. i just didn't trust her. we broke up and got back together a year later for another six or seven months, and finally I broke it off, ( other women )
after that, i started LISTENING TO WHAT THE OLE HEADS where saying about women. and Even back then, they were saying what i uses now as standard diction, when talking about women who, are just as fast as men think they are. AIN'T NO PLAYER, LIKE A FEMALE MACK, I Don't care how cute a man thinks he is, No man, can out pull a women. (when it comes to partners).
Thats when i learned to be cold hearted to some, and a over a chiever, for others, but thats another story. any, i went first, who's NEXT!!!
I have, and in the long run, it's was the Best, thing to ever happen. Be sure, at the time, I was hurt like hell. But I got over it. It lingered for a while that *women could do to me, what i did to them*(yes ladys, i'm a reformed cheater). Now I just do the CREEPIN . (it pays to have a sense of humor)
Fellaz, the reason I bring this up. Is because women need to know from DIFFERENT men, what WE went through.
I hear all the time about trust issues, baby daddy drama. I want theM to hear from US, OUR SIDE!!!!!!!!!, of HURT. And what we do to hide this PAIN. Of being cheated on, BY THOSE LYIN STINKIN. DIRTY, FLITHY, LYIN WOMEN (SORRY LADYS, I HAD TO VENT)< I FELL MUCH BETTER NOW.
For me, it was an eye opener!! we were suppositly in love, and were thinking of marriage. When i met her, she had just broken up, we her ex man, we dated for about a year!!, never had a clue she was cheating, matter of fact, I didn't even know him. So if i was commming home, and he had just left my place, unless i saw him, comming out my door. I just thought he was a passer by!!. One of my boys who was creepin at the time told me, he said this brother was in my house, when i was at work!!(young men are you listening). i could believe it becaise sex was the same, and we were not argueing, about dumb stuff. it wasn't until the second time ,my boy seen him and confronted him(moment of slience for my boy !!!) That I took action. First I did love her, or at least believed I did. so we talk and at first she denied eveything, then I said what about the confrontation, she started crying, and after a few hours, of heated .....Spoken word, she admitted to cheatting with him, first blaming me from her cheating (i worked long hours(military), and you just can't call out sick!!. Anyway, they had gotten as far as talking about getting back together!!!, but she had decided against it. but i guess the sex was soo good, why cut it out. Any way believe it or not, i never met the guy!!!. We dated about another three months, and I had, had enough. i just didn't trust her. we broke up and got back together a year later for another six or seven months, and finally I broke it off, ( other women )
after that, i started LISTENING TO WHAT THE OLE HEADS where saying about women. and Even back then, they were saying what i uses now as standard diction, when talking about women who, are just as fast as men think they are. AIN'T NO PLAYER, LIKE A FEMALE MACK, I Don't care how cute a man thinks he is, No man, can out pull a women. (when it comes to partners).
Thats when i learned to be cold hearted to some, and a over a chiever, for others, but thats another story. any, i went first, who's NEXT!!!