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Post by Blaque on Jul 10, 2006 14:43:33 GMT -5
This isn't really a "battle of the sexes" type of question. I just want a man's point of view.
What characteristics, personality types, habits, etc in women do you consider relationship breakers.
Let's say you meet a very attractive woman and after getting to know her a little better she does something that completely turns you off. What types of things would it be?
Once you realize that she is not the right person, do you keep this woman around until someone better comes along or do you end the relationship immediately?
OR, do you try and change her? Do you try and make her see why her personality or whatever is unattractive?
Honest answers please.
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Post by dolphinfan on Jul 10, 2006 18:03:47 GMT -5
I hate a women with a BAD ATTITUDE, or trys to FLOAT between Moderen women, and classic lady. I hate women, who are preacher types!!!. I hate greedy people!!. Lazy, will not do for herself and always expect her man to fill in the VOIDS, SHE CREATED!!!. I hate women who must know about evey dime you spend. i hate women who keeps up with the JONES. I hate snoopy women. I hate women with low self esteem, BUT, BUT,BUT, BUT< always seem to be up in peoples bussiness. For me it doesn't matter how attractive you are, if you are trifeling, you and me will not make it. If she is that attractive I may keep her around, BUT, we will not get close, EVER!!!. I don't believe in changing people, because as an ADULT, you are who you are, until you reach some life changing event or person, That makes you want to make a POSSITIVE change for YOURSELF.
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Post by pelicanguy on Jul 10, 2006 19:37:48 GMT -5
This isn't really a "battle of the sexes" type of question. I just want a man's point of view. What characteristics, personality types, habits, etc in women do you consider relationship breakers. Let's say you meet a very attractive woman and after getting to know her a little better she does something that completely turns you off. What types of things would it be? I don't like the following: * Women who try to boss me around * High-maintenence women * Women who complain about everything, but has no ideas as to solving problems/issues * Women who think they should be able to sit at home all day, spending my hard-earned money. * Women with their own places, but try to come to my place and be sneaky by leaving her stuff there, as if she's trying to move in/take over my crib.. * Women with low self-esteem * Women who are wedding monsters. * Women who love to argue/loves drama. * Women with bad spending habits. * Women who think they can still mess with other men. * Needy women * Women who always want....such as the latest things. Absolutely not! Why hold on to someone who steals your joy? Just like you can't change a man, you can't change a woman. You can let her know what bothers you, but if she doesn't want to change, let her go.
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Post by Blaque on Jul 10, 2006 20:00:55 GMT -5
OK, thanks guys. Just trying to get an idea of why it seems some of the nicest women remain single and then there are the "hell on heels" that always seem to have a man.
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Post by pelicanguy on Jul 10, 2006 20:06:51 GMT -5
The nice guys have been asking the same question throughout history.
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Post by Blaque on Jul 10, 2006 20:19:14 GMT -5
You know, I am the type of person who LOVES to hear about two really nice people who find each other. Most of the time it's one person who is trying hard in a relationship with someone who could care less.
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Post by blackviking on Jul 11, 2006 8:32:04 GMT -5
What characteristics, personality types, habits, etc in women do you consider relationship breakers. Let's say you meet a very attractive woman and after getting to know her a little better she does something that completely turns you off. What types of things would it be? * I don't deal with women who are not interested. Also, I don't care why they're not interested. I'll move on and find one that is. * Anything she does that signals a lack of integrity... done. * Anything she does that signals a lack of flexibility... done. * Anything she does that signals a selfish nature... done. Nope... done.
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Post by blackviking on Jul 11, 2006 8:34:26 GMT -5
OK, thanks guys. Just trying to get an idea of why it seems some of the nicest women remain single and then there are the "hell on heels" that always seem to have a man. The nice guys have been asking the same question throughout history. Nice guys (and girls) finish last.
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Post by lusciouslois on Jul 11, 2006 8:35:43 GMT -5
OK, thanks guys. Just trying to get an idea of why it seems some of the nicest women remain single and then there are the "hell on heels" that always seem to have a man. The nice guys have been asking the same question throughout history. Nice guys (and girls) finish last. We Do finish last.....sometimes I wonder if we are even in the running, BV
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Post by pelicanguy on Jul 11, 2006 12:07:50 GMT -5
I asked myself that question many a time, lois. Now, this nice guy did come out on top.
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Post by Blaque on Jul 11, 2006 15:41:23 GMT -5
I hear that a lot. I've probably said it a time or two myself. But you know what I think? Just because someone is "nice" doesn't mean that they are without issues. People say that Michael Jackson is a "nice" person but he is crazy as all hell. Being nice doesn't mean that you are relationship worthy. Nice people can have issues too. On the flip side of that, someone who appears to be a little bit on the harsh side could give 110% to their mate.
A person can be nice and be a chronic nagger. Or they can be nice and emotionally draining.
I guess I've just answered my own question. Being "nice" has nothing to do with why a person is single.
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