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Post by lusciouslois on Jul 11, 2006 7:50:05 GMT -5
drawn to as MsB said yesterday, to women who are "hell on heels?" I didnt want to answer in her post to the men cause she asked the men, but when she mentioned "mean" women, it caused me to think why and how SOME men are drawn to hateful, mean, arrogant, etc, women? Could this be low self-esteem on the man's part? Do they consider this kind of woman a "challenge?"
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Post by jazzlover on Jul 11, 2006 8:06:06 GMT -5
I think this applies to women too! We always want to think we can change people!
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Post by Blaque on Jul 11, 2006 8:22:19 GMT -5
Or sometimes people just like what they like. You may recognize arrogance in a person, but someone else may see that same person as being strong and confident. It's all about perception. Despite what the men said in my post, that women with bad attitudes and the like turn them off, we all know people who we perceive as having a bad attitude, but their partners obviously find something redeeming about that person. Besides, no one is perfect.
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Post by lusciouslois on Jul 11, 2006 8:23:57 GMT -5
Perhaps that is the case, especially when you (not you, per se) but when the person knows how that other one is or can be before they get into a deep relationship or marriage. It does seem that the hellish women KEEP a man though, somehow, some way
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Post by pelicanguy on Jul 11, 2006 12:14:19 GMT -5
Some men and women who are mean/drama queens can also put on a good front and attract the unsuspecting man/woman. They'll be the perfect man/woman in beginning, but as soon as he/she thinks he/she has her/him for good, their let their true colors show.
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Post by lusciouslois on Jul 11, 2006 12:48:33 GMT -5
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Post by Blaque on Jul 11, 2006 14:04:38 GMT -5
Some men and women who are mean/drama queens can also put on a good front and attract the unsuspecting man/woman. They'll be the perfect man/woman in beginning, but as soon as he/she thinks he/she has her/him for good, their let their true colors show. Very true.
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Post by dolphinfan on Jul 11, 2006 20:04:54 GMT -5
Real men don't mind a challlenge, if he sees potential!!!.
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Post by jazzlover on Jul 11, 2006 21:35:03 GMT -5
Men don't like DRAMA! I know I don't!
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Post by lusciouslois on Jul 12, 2006 8:43:41 GMT -5
Men don't like DRAMA! I know I don't! SOME men dont like drama true enough, but............
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Post by dolphinfan on Jul 12, 2006 18:01:34 GMT -5
Perhaps that is the case, especially when you (not you, per se) but when the person knows how that other one is or can be before they get into a deep relationship or marriage. It does seem that the hellish women KEEP a man though, somehow, some way Most of the time, and I'm speaking from first hand EXPERIENCE, you not only see the low side of a person, you also see the high side. I met a women, who had it all. But no man, well I bit, and at first she was cool, then she became demanding, said I had to learn to treat her a certain way, because she was use to it. I laughed she got mad and left. Called me back about three days later complaining, why I didn't call her. I told her, who ever she is used to, I'm not that guy. She believed, that becuase she was sucessful, and very intelligent, that men had to treat her as if she was a godess. Even tho, we had just met, anyway after a few days, she comes back over we talk. We kick it for about two weeks, BAM, I can't do this untill I check in with her.......... . mind you, I'm handling my own bussiness not hers!!!. She was so full of it, I actually told her, to kiss my azz, you ain't worth shiit, but benifits. So, get the hell out my face!!!!!! (I'm for real!!). Come to find out that she was so INSECURE, that she only knew how to be bossy in a relationship, now get this, about a month later she calls me and says,........... whats UP!!!!!!!!! W.T.F. She's in the church now!! with the rest of them...............
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Post by sweetpie on Jul 12, 2006 19:37:32 GMT -5
Perhaps that is the case, especially when you (not you, per se) but when the person knows how that other one is or can be before they get into a deep relationship or marriage. It does seem that the hellish women KEEP a man though, somehow, some way Most of the time, and I'm speaking from first hand EXPERIENCE, you not only see the low side of a person, you also see the high side. I met a women, who had it all. But no man, well I bit, and at first she was cool, then she became demanding, said I had to learn to treat her a certain way, because she was use to it. I laughed she got mad and left. Called me back about three days later complaining, why I didn't call her. I told her, who ever she is used to, I'm not that guy. She believed, that becuase she was sucessful, and very intelligent, that men had to treat her as if she was a godess. Even tho, we had just met, anyway after a few days, she comes back over we talk. We kick it for about two weeks, BAM, I can't do this untill I check in with her.......... . mind you, I'm handling my own bussiness not hers!!!. She was so full of it, I actually told her, to kiss my azz, you ain't worth shiit, but benifits. So, get the hell out my face!!!!!! (I'm for real!!). Come to find out that she was so INSECURE, that she only knew how to be bossy in a relationship, now get this, about a month later she calls me and says,........... whats UP!!!!!!!!! W.T.F. She's in the church now!! with the rest of them............... Whatchoo got against church women?
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Post by dolphinfan on Jul 12, 2006 20:05:02 GMT -5
Most of the time, and I'm speaking from first hand EXPERIENCE, you not only see the low side of a person, you also see the high side. I met a women, who had it all. But no man, well I bit, and at first she was cool, then she became demanding, said I had to learn to treat her a certain way, because she was use to it. I laughed she got mad and left. Called me back about three days later complaining, why I didn't call her. I told her, who ever she is used to, I'm not that guy. She believed, that becuase she was sucessful, and very intelligent, that men had to treat her as if she was a godess. Even tho, we had just met, anyway after a few days, she comes back over we talk. We kick it for about two weeks, BAM, I can't do this untill I check in with her.......... . mind you, I'm handling my own bussiness not hers!!!. She was so full of it, I actually told her, to kiss my azz, you ain't worth shiit, but benifits. So, get the hell out my face!!!!!! (I'm for real!!). Come to find out that she was so INSECURE, that she only knew how to be bossy in a relationship, now get this, about a month later she calls me and says,........... whats UP!!!!!!!!! W.T.F. She's in the church now!! with the rest of them............... Whatchoo got against church women? ASK BLACK PANTHER , he's a lot stronger then me!! I love the good church women of the world, but those crazy azz one's.....oh brother!!!
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Post by pelicanguy on Jul 12, 2006 20:51:10 GMT -5
You gotta look out for the crazy ones and the needy ones
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Post by lusciouslois on Jul 13, 2006 8:36:02 GMT -5
Sweetpie, I know...he is always bashing church women Dolphin, there are plenty and I emphasize PLENTY, of phony church men. I just got rid of one.
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