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Post by dolphinfan on Jul 28, 2006 16:41:27 GMT -5
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Post by Blaque on Jul 28, 2006 16:54:14 GMT -5
I don’t think you can put an exact number on it. People have to do what they feel is right for them. As long as they are safe and not having unprotected sex with any and everybody, it’s all good. While I was on vacation last week I got hooked on the Maury Povich DNA shows...now those people are sleeping with too many people at the same time. If you are a woman and you have slept with more than one man during the same time period and didn’t use a condom with either one of them, that is just nasty and trifling. Same goes for a man. If you are sleeping with multiple women and not using protection you deserve whatever happens to you.
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Post by dolphinfan on Jul 28, 2006 16:57:47 GMT -5
I don’t think you can put an exact number on it. People have to do what they feel is right for them. As long as they are safe and not having unprotected sex with any and everybody, it’s all good. While I was on vacation last week I got hooked on the Maury Povich DNA shows...now those people are sleeping with too many people at the same time. If you are a woman and you have slept with more than one man during the same time period and didn’t use a condom with either one of them, that is just nasty and trifling. Same goes for a man. If you are sleeping with multiple women and not using protection you deserve whatever happens to you. So in your oppinion, too many is a relative state, of mind, as long as you protect yourself?
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Post by Sista Chi on Jul 28, 2006 19:49:43 GMT -5
I would say if you had so many that you couldn't remember half of their names.
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Post by dolphinfan on Jul 28, 2006 19:56:05 GMT -5
I would say if you had so many that you couldn't remember half of their names. Thats good!!!, BUTT!! whats a number you could live with, both of you blaque and Sista Chi?
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Post by Sista Chi on Jul 28, 2006 21:08:26 GMT -5
I would say if you had so many that you couldn't remember half of their names. Thats good!!!, BUTT!! whats a number you could live with, both of you blaque and Sista Chi? I was hoping no one would ask me this, LOL. I would have to say about ....20, in my whole lifetime.
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Post by pelicanguy on Jul 28, 2006 22:29:54 GMT -5
I agree with Blaque....sleeping with a bunch of folks with no protection is disgusting.
Ladies, if your stuff ain't as tight as it used to be......slow down.
Fellas, if you can barely keep it up.....slow down.
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Post by blackviking on Jul 29, 2006 8:00:07 GMT -5
I hesitate to answer this question for anyone else. But, I would think twice about dating a woman who's had so many partners that she can't remember all their names. However, that's relative as well. She may have had very few partners, and just a bad memory. Or... she could have slept with half the State of California, and have a photographic memory. In general though, whether or not they remember their names would tell me how much they had put into the encounter itself. Too many instances of, "Well, it was just some guy I met in a bar..." would throw me off a bit. I might start asking myself, "So, what happens the next time she meets a guy in a bar?" Personally, I've been with seven women. I remember the names of six of them. The one I don't remember? The reason I don't remember her name... is because I never knew her name! Even though it's comparatively small number, it's still too many for me. There are three of those that I still wish I could take back.
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Post by Blaque on Jul 30, 2006 8:50:13 GMT -5
I don’t think you can put an exact number on it. People have to do what they feel is right for them. As long as they are safe and not having unprotected sex with any and everybody, it’s all good. While I was on vacation last week I got hooked on the Maury Povich DNA shows...now those people are sleeping with too many people at the same time. If you are a woman and you have slept with more than one man during the same time period and didn’t use a condom with either one of them, that is just nasty and trifling. Same goes for a man. If you are sleeping with multiple women and not using protection you deserve whatever happens to you. So in your oppinion, too many is a relative state, of mind, as long as you protect yourself? Yes, in my opinion, it's relative. To me it's not about a number, it's about how a person handles their business. If a woman sleeps with a man on Friday and Saturday she is sleeping with someone else, that is crazy. .
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