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Post by Blaque on Aug 2, 2006 14:51:53 GMT -5
What's the most important quality that you look for in the opposite sex? I'm not looking for politically correct answers. I'd really like to see the difference in what men and women find attractive.
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Post by pelicanguy on Aug 2, 2006 14:53:26 GMT -5
A brain....by that I mean common sense. Makes no sense to have all that beauty and have it going on if you have no sense.
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jazzlover
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Post by jazzlover on Aug 2, 2006 17:34:33 GMT -5
Physically it has to be pretty feet and a big behind!
Spiritually, just someone that loves God
Emotionally, calm
Mentally, must love current events
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Post by dolphinfan on Aug 2, 2006 18:20:08 GMT -5
My women must have a job!!! Be self sufficient thickly built healthy in mind and spirit fun to be around NOT NERVOUS.......... Not a beggar never greedy sexually active!!! private!!! A good speaker if she has kid(s) must be in control!!!! not looking for a mickey mouse daddy, (sugar daddy yeah!! ;D ) pretty smile and dimples, I'm done!! I LOVE smart women!!! especially, if she smart in a lot of areas!!! Knows how to dress herself, and when to be sexy, and definitely, when to be naughty. Like to travel and has the time!!! like sharing LIKE SPORTS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Thinks beyond the block, or nieghborhood!! a must. like sci-fi lets her man, be a MAN!! Isn't out to change me!!!, although, when I hit eighty, I wouldn't mind a change or two dosen't have a lot of nosey girlfriends.
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Post by Sista Chi on Aug 3, 2006 1:12:51 GMT -5
Sincerity....everything else will fall into place.
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Post by blackviking on Aug 3, 2006 2:51:08 GMT -5
* Integrity
* Flexibility
* Loyalty
* A Giving Nature
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Post by Blaque on Aug 3, 2006 14:42:02 GMT -5
Sincerity....everything else will fall into place. That's a good answer sister. Men, what if a woman had all the qualities that you listed but she had a negative outlook on life. You know the type, she complains about past relationships, everyone is out to get her, she hates her "friends", she hates her job...can you over look a negative personality is she had everything else you were looking for?
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Post by blackviking on Aug 3, 2006 19:27:20 GMT -5
Men, what if a woman had all the qualities that you listed but she had a negative outlook on life. Hmmm... good question. Let's take a look at that, shall we? She lacks integrity. She fails to see how she contributed to the poor quality of those relationships. Given that, it's very likely she will make the same mistakes with me, and then blame me for them. She lacks integrity. She's unable to fairly evaluate her surroundings and relationships, and how much they actually can/do affect her. She lacks integrity and loyalty. If she hates them, why call them friends? And it they truly are friends, why she wasting time hating them instead of helping them? She lacks flexibility. If you hate your job, then get another one. Don't whine about it as if no one else ever had a job they didn't like. The qualities I listed require a positive outlook on life in order to develop. Therefore, those qualities and the attitude that you described are mutually exclusive.
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Post by Blaque on Aug 4, 2006 9:30:20 GMT -5
You're good!
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Post by pelicanguy on Aug 4, 2006 13:39:18 GMT -5
Sincerity....everything else will fall into place. That's a good answer sister. Men, what if a woman had all the qualities that you listed but she had a negative outlook on life. You know the type, she complains about past relationships, everyone is out to get her, she hates her "friends", she hates her job...can you over look a negative personality is she had everything else you were looking for? I'd turn her down. There is absolutely no way I can co-exist with someone like that. She will always steal my joy and eventually, some of that nastiness will rub off on me, if I were to be with her long enough. But she won't get a chance to do that cause I will drop her with the quickness. She obviously has unresolved issues with herself she needs to deal with.
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Post by dolphinfan on Aug 4, 2006 18:11:01 GMT -5
Sincerity....everything else will fall into place. That's a good answer sister. Men, what if a woman had all the qualities that you listed but she had a negative outlook on life. You know the type, she complains about past relationships, everyone is out to get her, she hates her "friends", she hates her job...can you over look a negative personality is she had everything else you were looking for? No, because if she has a negative outlook, then the relationship, from her half of it, will alway be a downer. You have to watch what you say, then she gets on your NERVES, then she joins a ...................aaaaaaHHH never mind
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Post by Blaque on Aug 4, 2006 18:24:30 GMT -5
Hey guys, thanks for your responses. I can't handle negative personalities either. It becomes emotionally draining very quickly.
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Post by ifayomi on Aug 5, 2006 11:32:51 GMT -5
I like the big booties (really I do) but also she has to be able to understand me, be willing to try to understand me as I am an enigma
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Post by Blaque on Aug 5, 2006 12:29:36 GMT -5
I like the big booties (really I do) but also she has to be able to understand me, be willing to try to understand me as I am an enigma I get that already. You have a very mysterious quality to your writing.
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