What is up with you in claiming that women are liars? In accordance to YOUR truth then maybe there is something that you are doing to elicit lies from them.
We talk but you guys don't listen to what is actually being said. Your insistence upon getting it over so you can go on and watch your game doesn't cut it. Look, she may bring up something at a time when you don't want to. Sorry, but there are many things going on with women.
Now applying anaylytical solutions to handling situations deemed emotional uhhh... a happy medium will not make.
If you want a relationship with someone close to what you are looking for, but don't want what you call the muss and fuss, then get a pet.
If you want to be with her, be spiritual with her, lay with her, make a family with her, MARRY her. Then you show her that she is worth more than just what YOU want because it ain't all about you. You got to give more in your relationship with a woman. It is NOT a contract to be bargained it is more like a covenant... a promise to be with each other, understand each other, forgive each other in spite of their faults.
First I never said ALL women are Liars, or crazy as hell, I said SOME!!!. I also said that some of theses women claim to be Oprah like, get together and discuss issues........BUT RESOLVE,Nothing!!! except but how to teach a man a lesson, if he should cross your INVISIBLE LINE!!!. I also said, that the real reason some women can't choose better mates, is because they never really met a BLACK MAN, OUTSIDE OF A RELATIVE!!!. Therefore, how could you even, begin to under-STAND MEN, VERSES, the Boys, you have dated.
Now I do date, and know crazy when i see it, hear it, and it's up to me as a man, and to set things straight, or get what I can, and leave it the HELL alone!!!!. I'm not a player, or hater of women, but as I have aged, and become wiser, I try to AVOID the OBVIOUS one's.
here's my check list;
of questions, that don't have anything to do with starting a healthy relationship.
1) while I respect anybodies religion, if you are that religious and you choose to date outside the said, religion. And then all of a sudden, you feel like converting!, thats a warning sign
2)If you only talk about what I should be doing as apposed to what we should be doing to make things right, thats a warning sign!!
3)Outside of HAVING a Job!! and knowing that .It's none of your business, how much I make. warning sign!!! (over and over, and over)
4) If you break out a bible or other religious material and we are on a date; warning sign!!!!!! on ALL LEVELS, because again, if you are that religious, you shouldn't be dating outside that faith!!!
5)Sex if you are not active, I personally will not date you. this does not mean, we can't be friends!!. So if you let me know this, before i even ASK!!!!!!, the date and probably the relationship is over. Now I can WAIT, for a women, who's just, making sure, that, I'm that right person.
But refuse to date a person, who uses it as a , I've been a victim *cause*, and you must pay that price!!
6)Bitter, I don't even need to explain that one!!
7) Baby momma drama, REVISITED. I'm not the daddy, I
kids, but if for some reason of your own, I can't be around or even see if they would like me. Don't get mad when you ask for help and I refuse!! to help you!!!. If I can't be a substantial part of you and your children lives (after getting to know you and you of me). Don't be mad if I reject it, down the line. Exception to that rule, if they have been mentally hurt, and or molested, but would be nice to Know before hand!!!!!!!!
8) I didn't make your bills so pay them off, yourself!! warning sign, especially, if she asked all the time, and reminds you, thats what men are for!!.
9)Women who live two different reality's, she wants to be a MODERN women, but quickly retreats, to yester-years women, when serious issues come up!! ESPECIALLY HERS!!!!!
10) What type of car you have a what she likes, but can't afford herself!!! warning sign.
11) if she talks about ole boyfriends fondly, ask her why she break up with them!!!!! BIG warning sign, she is trying to tell you, what she really wants in her man. Any women worth her salt, would never compare you to another man....... at least to your face!!! and thats a FACT!!!!!!
12)Always losing her temper over DUMBSHYT!!!, thats when i leave the table very slowly!!!
Now what I like in My women
1) I
thick women
2) I
women with SPIRIT!!!!
3) I
INDEPENDENT women
4) I
Intelligent women.
5) I
women who get over and learn from past mistakes!!!!!!!
6) I
women who look forward to the future!!
7) I
women who are sexually Active and know and understand!! the cost of such a life!!!!!!.
8) I
women with HOBBY'S, they make great friends, especially if you share the same hobby (s)
9) I
women who share EXPERIENCES!!! with BOTH SEXES!!!
10) I
women with a LIFE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ( they don't spend a majority of there time, living through other peoples lives!!!!!!!!!!)
Now i hope i finally answered your questions, about perceived hate, that you say i have to wards women, I don't .
If there a few things, you need to know about me, here it is;
I'm reliable!!!!!!!
I have a job and always held one!!!
I have never been in a JAIL CELL!!!
I can and will communicate, any feelings, I have on any subject.
I respect, and listen, to others!!!!
I
our people, our views, our looks.
I support, and will help, and have helped many of my friends and there family's!!! as well as my own!!!
I
GAWD!!!
I step up!!! reaped the rewards, as well as it's detractors!! But always left and or remain a stable part of whatever i have started!!!
Did i mention, I have great friends, all over this country and when they were in the military. All over the world.
we keep in touch, because the vibe is SO good!!!
I even get a great vibe from You, because you can bring it. and not because of your faith!!!.You have a very strong inner strength, that I
!!!!!!!! and even if we can't agree on what you are feelling from me, that will stay with me, because thats whats important to me!. THE REAL , not fake azzes trying to be down, and never really knowing why!!!!!!!!! they are down for something!! or what it's really about for them!! PEOPLE!!!!!!!