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Post by dolphinfan on Aug 27, 2006 2:48:56 GMT -5
Are we asking too much from each other?
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Post by dolphinfan on Aug 27, 2006 2:50:03 GMT -5
I'm tired, i will answer my own question tomorrow afternoon
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Post by pelicanguy on Aug 27, 2006 13:58:17 GMT -5
Yes.
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Post by lusciouslois on Aug 28, 2006 8:58:24 GMT -5
I guess the women are asking too much from the men cause y'all make even simple things difficult. oh yeah
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Post by Blaque on Aug 28, 2006 9:43:02 GMT -5
Are we asking too much from each other? I think you have to ask a lot of the person you share your life with. When people settle, relationships are not the best that they can be. I am not afraid to say that I want it all or nothing. If a man can't give me all of himself..honesty, love, commitment, friendship, leadership, respect, etc. then I would rather be alone.
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Post by dolphinfan on Sept 2, 2006 12:17:26 GMT -5
I guess the women are asking too much from the men cause y'all make even simple things difficult. oh yeah We are not just talking about the MEN, you like , but in GENERAL. I hear from both sides, what they hate, but never what they like, about, whats worth saving in the relationship, they are in right now!!
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Post by dolphinfan on Sept 2, 2006 12:23:06 GMT -5
First sorry it took so long to get back to my own question. For me it's about wants verse needs. I want a independent women. Most independent women immediatley give control over to the man, as soon as she feels confortable, to do so. I say lihgten the burden on the both of us, and work it down the middle, except, when one is out of it, (hurt sick). I always meet the talkers.............I will have to get back with yall on this, my connection, to the net is starting to go, i will try back later tonight!!! ( THE STORM!!!)
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Post by sweetpie on Sept 3, 2006 23:05:09 GMT -5
It isn't easy and as a matter of fact it is a lot to ask...
When you step into a relationship and really seal the deal you don't really realize how much of yourself that you will have to put into it. Yes, the question periodically pops up "What the hell did I get myself into?" Some can deal others cannot and therefore concentrate on the misery that could creep in. But what matters more to you? This is why a lot of the time I stress the "talking it out", and telling ideas that may seem to be unrealistic or not reality based. If these ideas are not really tried and the issues get worse what could it hurt? To sit down and discuss at length the things that eat away at the relationship. It is at least worth a try.
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Post by dolphinfan on Sept 6, 2006 19:13:23 GMT -5
It isn't easy and as a matter of fact it is a lot to ask... When you step into a relationship and really seal the deal you don't really realize how much of yourself that you will have to put into it. Yes, the question periodically pops up "What the hell did I get myself into?" Some can deal others cannot and therefore concentrate on the misery that could creep in. But what matters more to you? This is why a lot of the time I stress the "talking it out", and telling ideas that may seem to be unrealistic or not reality based. If these ideas are not really tried and the issues get worse what could it hurt? To sit down and discuss at length the things that eat away at the relationship. It is at least worth a try. WHEN ARE YOU GONNA DO, a INTERVIEW!!!
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Post by sweetpie on Sept 6, 2006 20:40:58 GMT -5
Ohhh! You are gonna try to slice and dice me huh? Okay dang!
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Post by dolphinfan on Sept 7, 2006 20:23:08 GMT -5
Ohhh! You are gonna try to slice and dice me huh? Okay dang! DAYUMM RIIGHT, the men on this board want to KNOW, who you are what are you about , how did you get to be who you are.
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