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Post by Blaque on Oct 23, 2006 12:05:10 GMT -5
Speaking in general, what things do you think a man can learn most from a woman and what can a woman learn most from a man?
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Post by dolphinfan on Oct 23, 2006 17:47:52 GMT -5
Respect, respect in it's true form, not from what we are told. I think we have learned to disrespect, each other more then , us learning to truly ,learn!!!!!!! what we are putting on the table, and the REAL cost!!!!!!!!, to keep it together.
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Post by pelicanguy on Oct 23, 2006 22:39:20 GMT -5
We both need to learn how to work together so we can build together. Too often, many men and women look out for themselves.
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Post by lusciouslois on Oct 24, 2006 9:17:59 GMT -5
Some things are and should be common sense -do as you would have someone do unto you -honesty -respect -be about it, not just talk about it -for the men (since they are such visual creatures) everything that gliiters is not gold. The pretty woman with the smooth words is not always good for you -women-not every thing that looks good is good for you. We ALL need to look under the surface
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Post by Blaque on Oct 24, 2006 10:37:54 GMT -5
I agree that respect is something that we need to learn. I believe that the vicious cycle of entering into relationships and then having them come to an end is creating bitter, hardened, deceptive people. I wish human beings would just learn to be honest and let their guards down.
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Post by lusciouslois on Oct 24, 2006 11:32:11 GMT -5
Men I would like to see some of you or your brothers learn these things -sometimes little things mean a lot but dont sell a woman cheap or short -sometimes you have to give up something in order to get something in return (not material goods) -you CAN be a leader WITHOUT BEING A TYRANT -you CAN be a follower or walk beside me without being a wuss/milquetoast
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Post by pelicanguy on Oct 24, 2006 14:42:24 GMT -5
Women - let him know appreciative you are. A simple "thank you" can do wonders.
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Post by dolphinfan on Oct 24, 2006 18:48:08 GMT -5
Men I would like to see some of you or your brothers learn these things -sometimes little things mean a lot but dont sell a woman cheap or short -sometimes you have to give up something in order to get something in return (not material goods) -you CAN be a leader WITHOUT BEING A TYRANT -you CAN be a follower or walk beside me without being a wuss/milquetoast For the Lady's: 1) Just because a man says no, doesn't mean, he dose not love YOU!! 2) Just because I listen, doesn't mean , I'm a push over!!!!!!!!! 3)Don't take it personal, because I ain't buying into, what your saying!!!!!!!!!! on a PARTICULAR SUBJECT. 4)I'm a man, not a DAWG!!!! 5)I'm not your personal slave............. unless, we agreed upon it. 6) I respect your mother, BUT I AIN'T dating her, I'm dating you. 7) I'm not your kids father, so remember that!!! when i do things as if they are MINE!!! 8) all black men are not alike!!! 9) If you are very religious , tell us, so nobody gets disrespected. 10) My money ain't your money. I do because I feel good ,about what I'm doing, not because, it's mandated
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Post by pelicanguy on Oct 27, 2006 13:14:36 GMT -5
Ladies: * Just because he wines and dines you, gives you great gifts and has great sex with you doesn't mean he's a good man. There's more to a guy than that. Do you REALLY know him or do you let the aforementioned blind you?
* A man who really loves you does not beat you. Real women don't put their hands on a man too. It goes both ways.
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Post by sweetpie on Oct 27, 2006 19:52:14 GMT -5
Ladies: * Just because he wines and dines you, gives you great gifts and has great sex with you doesn't mean he's a good man. There's more to a guy than that. Do you REALLY know him or do you let the aforementioned blind you? * A man who really loves you does not beat you. Real women don't put their hands on a man too. It goes both ways. Dat's for damm sure!
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Post by dolphinfan on Oct 28, 2006 2:17:54 GMT -5
Ladies: * Just because he wines and dines you, gives you great gifts and has great sex with you doesn't mean he's a good man. There's more to a guy than that. Do you REALLY know him or do you let the aforementioned blind you? * A man who really loves you does not beat you. Real women don't put their hands on a man too. It goes both ways.
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