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Post by Blaque on Nov 14, 2006 17:34:23 GMT -5
He says, "I'm always meeting these women who ain't about nothing”
She says, “All men are dogs”
Is it really that there are no sistas who fit the bill, or is it that he is what he attracts? Are all men really dogs, or do some ladies keep leaving out dog food?
My question is: Are we bringing to the table what we want in the opposite sex? Let’s be honest.
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Post by pelicanguy on Nov 14, 2006 19:47:58 GMT -5
It all boils down to you. If you say all you meet are losers, there is a reason why you keep meeting them.
What is it about those folks that attract you to them? Do they do something that drives you wild?
Once you take a good look at yourself, you can learn to make better choices when it comes to dating.
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Post by dolphinfan on Nov 14, 2006 20:44:35 GMT -5
I believe, you like what you like. I see a lot of people putting spins, on what they like, to Fit in. But the proof is in the pudding. I love an Intelligent Black women PERIOD. but the truth is Most ,that I meet and like are Married or in a serious, relationship. Thats when My friend takes control, and tells me, she's OK trust me. I have met women and right off the back, I knew she wasn't any good for me, but, because she looked good, I let it past. I think thats the most egregious, mistake both sexes make. Be sure, I 'm not saying, you must date men or women ,you are not physically attractive too. I think thats a mistake too. But a good mix ain't so bad, (intelligent and beautiful )in other words, the other person, dosen't have to be perfect, but be able to meet your standards. On the subject of standards, I believe we are all guilty of this. We either set them Incredibily high or too low.
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Post by Blaque on Nov 15, 2006 14:14:52 GMT -5
I do believe that words have power. And yes, people should ask themselves why they are drawn to the people that they are drawn to.
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Post by kanika on Nov 15, 2006 14:40:34 GMT -5
I think that our habits, dress, and attitude attract certain types of people to us. Somtimes similarities attract, sometimes opposites attract, it is hard to tell.
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jazzlover
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Post by jazzlover on Nov 19, 2006 21:36:42 GMT -5
My brother used to call me "Captain Save-a-Ho". Because I always went for women in trouble!
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sweetpie
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Post by sweetpie on Nov 19, 2006 22:57:03 GMT -5
Panther that is coldblooded...
It is true that we like what we like but if we keep running into the same type of person we are not learning from our mistakes. It will only change if you make that conscious decision to look for the more meaningful qualities in a person.
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Post by lusciouslois on Nov 20, 2006 8:52:30 GMT -5
Panther that is coldblooded... It is true that we like what we like but if we keep running into the same type of person we are not learning from our mistakes. It will only change if you make that conscious decision to look for the more meaningful qualities in a person. Sweetpie, it does sound cold-blooded..why the woman "in trouble" got to be a ho? that seems to be a popular (or used to be popular) term for men that like to "help" women
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jazzlover
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Post by jazzlover on Nov 20, 2006 14:18:18 GMT -5
Well that is what my brother called me!
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Post by pelicanguy on Nov 20, 2006 15:52:50 GMT -5
I don't think those women needed to be "helped." They just suckered BP.
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sweetpie
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Post by sweetpie on Nov 20, 2006 22:31:48 GMT -5
Bro B how would you know?!
BP I think that you were attracted to women that seemed to be in need. It was possibly a way for you to FEEL needed. If presented something that you could help her with it probably felt good to you.
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Sista Chi
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Post by Sista Chi on Nov 21, 2006 16:47:19 GMT -5
You seek, who you are.
If you a gentlemen, you will seek a lady.
If you are not, you won't.
You gravitate to who you are as a person. The kind of women/men you are attracted to will change, as long as you make those changes within yourself.
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