sweetpie
B.E. Staff Sergeant
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Post by sweetpie on Feb 15, 2007 8:03:10 GMT -5
I listen to talk radio alot and they had this white dude saying he would not marry an American (white) woman if the sun shined on her. They are materialistic, selfish, only care about what you got and are only good for 7 years and he needs to have the ability to pay for plastic surgery and he doesn't trust them. He explained that after his divorce, he had the hardest time trying to get back into the game. He said that he put an ad on a dating website and explained the type of guy he was and told the truth about how much money he made and he got about 50 hits in about 4 days. He posted the same ad again but he changed it he said that he made $75,000-$100,000 per year and he got 157 hits in 2 days. His ex left him for some guy, she told him that it was her time now that she raised children and yada yada.
Anyhoo he found this Asian woman on Match.com and went to China and brought her back here. They supposedly take care of the home and take care of him. I wondered where the white males were since a good majority of brothas think they got the white gold... ya'll betta watch out. You get EXACTLY what you look for. What I found funny was the there was no mention of sistas, when the white chicks called back to retaliate they were saying an Asian or Spanish women (as their rivals) weren't the answer... even the white males said the same thing.
Sistas not again.
I say this white people have male/female problems amonst themselves just like black folk do.
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Post by Blaque on Feb 15, 2007 10:17:33 GMT -5
I think that this man is just making excuses to go and buy himself a wife. It’s hard to believe that EVERY white woman would have treated him the way his wife did. To exclude an entire race is ludicrous. To say that all white women are materialistic and selfish is wrong.
It’s the same with brothas making generalizations about sistas. They just don’t want to take the time to deal with us as individuals and get to know what makes each of us tick.
Men who use these kinds of excuses to see if the grass is greener in another race are the ones who are selfish in my opinion. They are too lazy to invest the time that it takes to uncover our distinctiveness.
But if men actually think that dating outside of their race will bring them happy and trouble free relationships, more power to them. Instead of pointing the finger at all women of a certain race, the ought to be looking in the mirror.
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Post by lusciouslois on Feb 15, 2007 11:21:30 GMT -5
*putting lid down on piano* 'Nuff said
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Post by dolphinfan on Feb 17, 2007 16:45:17 GMT -5
Brothas are going to Brazil, Sistas are going on long boat rides, in the Caribbean. I think this issue ,crosses sex and racial lines. People are lonely, and doing whatever they can think of, to get somebody in there life. When it comes to relationships, in America, I think we all need to take what we are being told, with a grain of salt. This man, is obviously desperate, and would do anything, to COMMANDEER a relationship. Not grow one from the start. Outside of racial issues, everybody have similar problems, in there relationships.
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jazzlover
B.E. Sergeant First Class
It Takes Pressure to Make a Diamond
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Post by jazzlover on Feb 20, 2007 12:24:07 GMT -5
As I have said before a lot of men don't like drama and conflict in a relationship, American woman BOTH black and white are not normally docile as Asian and Latino woman, this isn't just an opinion it is a fact, if a man wants that kind of woman that is his perrogative. Deep down inside MOST men want a passive woman but won't admit it.
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Post by lusciouslois on Feb 20, 2007 12:49:55 GMT -5
As I have said before a lot of men don't like drama and conflict in a relationship, American woman BOTH black and white are not normally docile as Asian and Latino woman, this isn't just an opinion it is a fact, if a man wants that kind of woman that is his perrogative. Deep down inside MOST men want a passive woman but won't admit it. *wondering what docile Latino women Panther has run into-the ones I know are hellions* by the way, there are enough men that cause drama and conflict their selves.
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Post by Blaque on Feb 20, 2007 14:36:36 GMT -5
If I was around Panther for more than 5 minutes I don’t know if I would hug him or shake the hell out of him.
His generalities of women kill me. But I guess I’m acting like one of the dramatic, conflict queens that he’s referring to so I guess I’d better not threaten him with physical violence.
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Post by lusciouslois on Feb 20, 2007 15:54:06 GMT -5
If I was around Panther for more than 5 minutes I don’t know if I would hug him or shake the hell out of him. His generalities of women kill me. But I guess I’m acting like one of the dramatic, conflict queens that he’s referring to so I guess I’d better not threaten him with physical violence. *snickering* I'm the one who gets called drama queen ;
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Post by Blaque on Feb 20, 2007 16:38:03 GMT -5
It's sad, that's all I'm gonna say.
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Post by pelicanguy on Feb 20, 2007 21:23:33 GMT -5
Hell, you are Lois. ;D
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Post by lusciouslois on Feb 21, 2007 9:10:20 GMT -5
Call it what you will, EvilBB
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