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Post by lusciouslois on Feb 15, 2007 11:42:48 GMT -5
*sorry, Panther* I was watching some judge show this week and this situation came up. A woman was suing another woman for something and during the course of the show, she said that her male "Friend" pays her cellphone bill. The judge asked her if any men she dates seriously knows about the "Friend" paying the bill. She said yes and they dont mind. Guys, if you start seriously dating a woman and she has a male "Friend" paying any of her bills, would you get upset?
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Post by Blaque on Feb 15, 2007 12:12:00 GMT -5
This should be good.
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Post by darock on Feb 15, 2007 13:02:35 GMT -5
Yes. He's obviously benefiting from the "arrangement."
The only way I would pay a woman's bills is if we were either in a committed EXCLUSIVE, LONG TERM relationship, and lived under the same roof, or if she is a mother to my children.
Let me add that I think that when guys do that for women who are none of the above, that they do a disservice to those women, and to most other men, because now these women will expect this from every man that deals with them, and the pressure is put on future suitors to accomodate, who don't believe in doing so outside of the type of relationships that I've mentioned.
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Post by pelicanguy on Feb 15, 2007 13:24:59 GMT -5
*sorry, Panther* I was watching some judge show this week and this situation came up. A woman was suing another woman for something and during the course of the show, she said that her male "Friend" pays her cellphone bill. The judge asked her if any men she dates seriously knows about the "Friend" paying the bill. She said yes and they dont mind. Guys, if you start seriously dating a woman and she has a male "Friend" paying any of her bills, would you get upset? You damned right I would. What other "arrangements" would she have with him....and with other guys as well? I'm 95 percent sure he is expecting something in return. What if that so-called friend cuts her off? Then what? She'll most likely be looking at me to pay such a bill(s) and I ain't paying a damn thing. This type of woman is one who'll go around thinking she's entitled to various things and expect the man to take care of those things. Sorry, but I'll kick her to the curb with the quickness upon finding out.
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Post by lusciouslois on Feb 15, 2007 13:35:49 GMT -5
atMsB! Fellows, I agree with y'all. She would more than likely expect some man, regardless of the relationship, to "pay her way," and it does do a disservice to both sexes. I cant see a male "just a friend," paying a continual/monthly bill for a woman he isnt sleeping with. I can see if she needed help one or two times but every month?
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Post by darock on Feb 15, 2007 13:58:44 GMT -5
I cant see a male "just a friend," paying a continual/monthly bill for a woman he isnt sleeping with. I can see if she needed help one or two times but every month? Funny thing is, I've had a few women tell me that they were giving NOTHING in return, but I thought that they were full of it, and I couldn't quite figure out if it was their pride/ ego or their shame that put that lie on their lips. You don't go without ANYTHING, yet you are giving NOTHING in return? Yeah, right. And I got two tickets upfront for James Brown and Luther Vandross tonight...
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Post by dolphinfan on Feb 17, 2007 16:33:38 GMT -5
yes, because , he's probably, what they used to be calle, a sugar daddy. And he's probably getting laid too.
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Post by lusciouslois on Feb 21, 2007 15:47:18 GMT -5
Okay, fellows (and BB,lol) I just posed this question to two of my coworkers. They BOTH said that there are some men that wouldnt have a problem with a woman they date allowing another man to pay a bill or two for her, as long as nothing sexual was going on.
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Post by Blaque on Feb 21, 2007 16:03:36 GMT -5
I guess they are thinking that it's one less bill THEY have to worry about.
That set up sounds too messy for me.
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Post by pelicanguy on Feb 21, 2007 16:26:03 GMT -5
Okay, fellows (and BB,lol) I just posed this question to two of my coworkers. They BOTH said that there are some men that wouldnt have a problem with a woman they date allowing another man to pay a bill or two for her, as long as nothing sexual was going on. Those guys are out of their damn minds believing that nothing is going on. They can have those types of women.
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Post by pelicanguy on Feb 21, 2007 16:27:35 GMT -5
Okay, fellows (and BB,lol) It's like that huh? Fine.
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Post by lusciouslois on Feb 21, 2007 16:27:50 GMT -5
Okay, fellows (and BB,lol) I just posed this question to two of my coworkers. They BOTH said that there are some men that wouldnt have a problem with a woman they date allowing another man to pay a bill or two for her, as long as nothing sexual was going on. Those guys are out of their damn minds believing that nothing is going on. They can have those types of women. MsB, that was my girls' reasoning, that the guys would feel that is one less bill THEY would have to try to pay or hear about. BB, I know, right?
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