sudan
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Post by sudan on Feb 15, 2007 16:43:06 GMT -5
In our society...Is there a difference between a Man HO and a Woman HO.....and why?? ;D
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sweetpie
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Post by sweetpie on Feb 15, 2007 20:35:34 GMT -5
It is expected of the man "HO" he is on the hunt as always to scratch that proverbial itch. It is acceptable to eff as many women as possible.
The she "HO" is not supposed to have an itch she is supposed to be the proverbial Madonna. But the Madonna is not fun she is supposed to be chaste. If she turns from that she still doesn't win. Women are held up on higher standards and when they fall or when they succumb to their desires (which is a natural thing) she is considered a tramp.
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Post by darock on Feb 15, 2007 20:53:50 GMT -5
I find this topic to be VERY interesting, because it's always WOMEN who say that things aren't supposed to work both ways, and this subject matter is a PERFECT example of that.
The reason for the perceived double standard is simple. It matters not who initiated, who took the lead, who made the first move, etc...it is the WOMAN who is always seen as the prize!
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Post by pelicanguy on Feb 15, 2007 23:11:35 GMT -5
I find this topic to be VERY interesting, because it's always WOMEN who say that things aren't supposed to work both ways, and this subject matter is a PERFECT example of that. The reason for the perceived double standard is simple. It matters not who initiated, who took the lead, who made the first move, etc...it is the WOMAN who is always seen as the prize! Dang, bro, you've been reading my mind.
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sweetpie
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Post by sweetpie on Feb 16, 2007 7:15:11 GMT -5
Oh no Puhleeze...
What prize YOU talkin'?
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Post by lusciouslois on Feb 16, 2007 9:53:01 GMT -5
Oh no Puhleeze... What prize YOU talkin'? thats what I wanna know in the meantime, JMHO; men are encouraged to cheat/sow their wild oats and some think it is cute to have or have had a bunch of women as well as children, whereas a woman usually doesnt encourage another one to go lay with a bunch of men (although it happens) and if she does, she is labeled. But some of the same men who look down on her want to lay with her too.
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Post by Blaque on Feb 16, 2007 11:50:51 GMT -5
I think it depends on how one defines “man ho” and “woman ho” because in my eyes, there is no difference.
If a man or a woman is in a committed relationship but for whatever reason continues to go outside of that relationship to have sex with others…they are both just as morally corrupt.
But in MY OPINION, being a sexual person does not make a man nor a woman a tramp. Being comfortable with one’s sexuality and being able to connect with the opposite sex in a physical way is a beautiful thing…as long as it’s not done in an unhealthy way. But there are a lot of people in society that would label a woman (or a man for that matter) a whore if they slept around with different people. If a man or woman enters into an intimate adult relationship with someone from the opposite sex, is not already in a committed relationship, and is practicing safe sex, they should not be looked down upon. Sex is the most natural and beautiful act in the world. But I’m guessing I’m in the minority on this one.
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Post by pelicanguy on Feb 16, 2007 12:51:22 GMT -5
Oh no Puhleeze... What prize YOU talkin'? thats what I wanna know #popcorn5rv# in the meantime, JMHO; men are encouraged to cheat/sow their wild oats and some think it is cute to have or have had a bunch of women as well as children, whereas a woman usually doesnt encourage another one to go lay with a bunch of men (although it happens) and if she does, she is labeled. But some of the same men who look down on her want to lay with her too. I strongly disagree that men are encouraged to cheat. Now as far as men sleeping with as many women as possible while they're single, I'll give you that. However, from a biological point of view, that's normal (yes, I know humans have brains and we are the smarter animal). Men sleeping with a lot of women goes back to the beginning of man and it also exists in the animal world as well. Biologically speaking, the male is attempting to spread his bloodline as much as possible.
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Post by lusciouslois on Feb 16, 2007 13:20:08 GMT -5
I think it depends on how one defines “man ho” and “woman ho” because in my eyes, there is no difference. If a man or a woman is in a committed relationship but for whatever reason continues to go outside of that relationship to have sex with others…they are both just as morally corrupt. But in MY OPINION, being a sexual person does not make a man nor a woman a tramp. Being comfortable with one’s sexuality and being able to connect with the opposite sex in a physical way is a beautiful thing…as long as it’s not done in an unhealthy way. But there are a lot of people in society that would label a woman (or a man for that matter) a whore if they slept around with different people. If a man or woman enters into an intimate adult relationship with someone from the opposite sex, is not already in a committed relationship, and is practicing safe sex, they should not be looked down upon. Sex is the most natural and beautiful act in the world. But I’m guessing I’m in the minority on this one. that's the key phrase, "in a committed relationship but going outside of said relationship to have sex with others." I have heard a man call his own self a "ho," and thought it was cute/funny when his son was cheating on his girlfriend. Red flag....he has no sense of committment.
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Post by Blaque on Feb 16, 2007 14:07:23 GMT -5
Yep, that's a red flag all right. If a man calls himself a ho' that may be a sign that he is not commitment minded.
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Post by sweetpie on Feb 16, 2007 20:14:33 GMT -5
thats what I wanna know in the meantime, JMHO; men are encouraged to cheat/sow their wild oats and some think it is cute to have or have had a bunch of women as well as children, whereas a woman usually doesnt encourage another one to go lay with a bunch of men (although it happens) and if she does, she is labeled. But some of the same men who look down on her want to lay with her too. I strongly disagree that men are encouraged to cheat. Now as far as men sleeping with as many women as possible while they're single, I'll give you that. However, from a biological point of view, that's normal (yes, I know humans have brains and we are the smarter animal). Men sleeping with a lot of women goes back to the beginning of man and it also exists in the animal world as well. Biologically speaking, the male is attempting to spread his bloodline as much as possible. What is the difference between a man who has sex with as many and cheating? They are the same thing. I see what you are saying but doesn't it confirm the males lack of control when it comes to procreating? Seriously if you are in the dating game and yes sex comes into play are you REALLY wanting to spread your bloodline or are you just scratching that itch? In other words the natural feeling of wanting to have sex is not discouraged in males but rather encouraged because of the itch. Women have the itch too, it comes and goes but if she pays attention closely to the itch AND acts on it she will be talked about no doubt about it. It is not going to matter if she is in tune with her sexuality if she is seen with more than one man she is a ho, tramp if you will. If she is tattooed that is even worse. I heard that the tattoos on the lower back are called "tramp stamp"and this name was given by the men around here. There are all kinds of names men AND women give to women who let their sexuality be known.
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Post by darock on Feb 17, 2007 9:45:27 GMT -5
Look at the women ARGUING this, like it's gonna change...always happens. Now let us argue a particular standard that favors women more than men...
I guess that that's the way that God made things, and again, all things are NOT meant to work both ways! Ladies, you may not think that's fair, but it's just that simple!
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Post by sweetpie on Feb 17, 2007 12:41:57 GMT -5
If we didn't talk about it then what good is a message board?
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Post by pelicanguy on Feb 17, 2007 12:51:29 GMT -5
Discussion is fine, but arguing ruins everything.
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Post by dolphinfan on Feb 17, 2007 16:31:31 GMT -5
In our society...Is there a difference between a Man HO and a Woman HO.....and why?? ;D Yes, theres a difference!!,healthy men are expected to play the field. Women are still considered, trash, if they do the same thing. I also wanted to point out. The Women Not men!!! are the better players. Women may get burnt eariler in life, but once they understand the rules!!!!!! and have no problems, with there own sexuality, there is no contest, women win. Now don't get this confused with a RELATIONSHIP!!, this is about sexual opprotunity and choice of partners. No matter how cute or handsome, a man think he is, the WOmen (not girl) makes the final choice, of WHOM she lays down with!!!. Game may get you in the door!!!, but it don't get you laid!!. As A single man, I'm still amazed, at how women can carry multiple relationships, and when she gets caught, she EXPECTED, to have had her man, drive her to this act, or acts. Women get as horny as men. They just have to go about it differently. I seen women with women, women with men, and they know, unless they get caught on tape, deny, deny, deny, something useally used by men. But women have the added fact, that if they KEEP there Hidden desire secret, except to there lovers, nobody would believe the men, unless a slip up accurd, by her. Take all the teachers, (female teachers) getting caught, having sex, with students. this isn't just a sudent occurence. This has been happening, for years. it just acceptted, that women must have problems, if they are attracted to teenagers. now the Attraction , in itself isn';t wrong, the fact that you followed it through, is what makes it wrong!!!. Men do this all the time, most don't act on this feeling, but when it does happen, it's not big news, unless it's gay in nature. I'm gonna end with this, women have been taught to keep there sexuall desires, on the down low, and are very good at it as a group. But as a single man, I will never, let it get bye me, because they are the better ho's. I can't wait, un til one, writes a book, not about getting money, or men with money, but playing the field. I bet a lot of mens jaws will drop!!!
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